backflung, smonster!
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Talk about my forgetting the obvious - Manic Panic Blood Red, Kiss of Death, or Vampire
oo, how does a novice like me know which shade is the right one for me? Um, do I ask Cass? I think that might be the answer in my case. Cass, what are your prefered reds? I am more interested in a blood red than a sexpot red, but really just interested in a good red.
Part of me still feels like it's just shitty timing, which makes things both better and worse.
I dunno. My recommdation would be to let go of the "shitty timing" narrative, not because it's wrong, but because it creates a false hope that he'll come around and change his mind. He might not. His loss. I've met you, smonster, and you're adorable and you wear your heart on your sleeve and I have no doubt eventually you'll meet someone who is right for you and ready to be there with you.
Lovely pictures, Jilli!
And thank you.
I'm sitting on the tarmac in San Diego. I hope they can fix our plane soon. I kinda want to get home.
I think really bad bosses leave you with a form of PTSD.
That makes a whole lot of sense. I keep telling myself that the old rules don't apply, but there are times when I feel like the veteran who dives under a table when a car backfires (do cars still backfire?)
Let me swatch the reds when I get home. Remind me tomorrow-ish.
We're deplaning and getting the next plane. Maybe Portland by midnight.
We're deplaning and getting the next plane. Maybe Portland by midnight.
Blargh. I hope you make it home sooner than that, Cass.
it creates a false hope that he'll come around and change his mind. He might not.
Oh, yeah, I think that hope is going to creep around the back of my head for a while. Letting it go is going to take time. Thanks for calling me out on it.
Saw it, Erin, thanks. I get paid tomorrow and I do think I'll be buying some cookie dough.
That makes a whole lot of sense. I keep telling myself that the old rules don't apply, but there are times when I feel like the veteran who dives under a table when a car backfires (do cars still backfire?)
Man, me too. I've been really fortunate with bosses overall, but the last job was a major exception. I still get twitchy about boss issues.
We're deplaning and getting the next plane. Maybe Portland by midnight.
Oh UGH. I am very sorry.
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We're deplaning and getting the next plane. Maybe Portland by midnight.
Ugh, that sucks. Sorry.
But thanks for the red recs, Cass. I keep eyeing that Manic Panic Vampire Red. Just might fit the bill. It's awful pretty.