Stephanie,
I know it is embarrassing, but he must control her or you need to have this crap documented if he can't. How would you feel safe to have your son in her presence if she can't get a grip? I'm serious about this.
Also, you may want to get a mediator to set out contractually what your communication patterns will be. I don't know what her damage is: does she think you want him back? Does she understand you like this situation no more than she does?
Was this his GF the whole time or is she new to the picture?
Oh God, Stephanie. I'm so sorry. This is the last kind of drama you need right now.
Get the restraining order. There is no rationalizing crazy.
Stephanie, you're a lawyer so you probably don't need to hear this, but document, document, document. Everything.
The girlfriend is the crazy one. Possibly Sammy's father, depending on how serious he let things get before telling girlfriend about Sammy. But definitely not you.
Can I send you some virtual popcorn?
It's just so trashy and embarrassing....it just makes me feel dumb. And alone.
Never alone.
Also, fuck cancer. My friend who detoured her trip from Texas to Tennessee through Atlanta to drive me home for Christmas has some type of metastatic cancer. They're still trying to track down the source, which is meaning weeks of not knowing anything about how serious it really is.
Ugh Ginger, what a nightmare for her!
Thank you, everyone. Fred, I think you are so right about documenting. Thankfully, the lawyer in me has made me scan everything.
I thought I would just share with everyone that while all that craziness did happen yesterday, I also got my period this morning. Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.
There is a driving ban in MA after 4pm today. I'm so glad that TCG ended up getting a day off today and didn't have to worry about driving at all today.
Stay safe, North Easters! Stay warm too.
Oh, Ginger, what a nightmare indeed, for her and you. How horrible. Fuck cancer.
Stephanie, good grief, some people suck. Get the restraining order if you have to. It's a PITA but it's the best way to get it on record that she's harassing you. Preaching to the choir, I know. Previous experience with harassment and stalkers has left me with zero tolerance for such people.
Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.
Yep. Even with the Mirena, the hormonal swings still happen. It's truly amazing, the difference it makes in my moods and my feeling of physical health. I long for menopause.
