Mal: Take your people and go. Captain: You would have done the same. Mal: We can already see I haven't.

'Out Of Gas'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


quester - Feb 07, 2013 5:53:02 pm PST #26034 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

{{{{{Buffistas}}}}}}}


Fred Pete - Feb 08, 2013 4:19:16 am PST #26035 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.

Stephanie, you're a lawyer so you probably don't need to hear this, but document, document, document. Everything.

The girlfriend is the crazy one. Possibly Sammy's father, depending on how serious he let things get before telling girlfriend about Sammy. But definitely not you.

Can I send you some virtual popcorn?


Ginger - Feb 08, 2013 8:19:32 am PST #26036 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

It's just so trashy and embarrassing....it just makes me feel dumb. And alone.

Never alone.

Also, fuck cancer. My friend who detoured her trip from Texas to Tennessee through Atlanta to drive me home for Christmas has some type of metastatic cancer. They're still trying to track down the source, which is meaning weeks of not knowing anything about how serious it really is.


Burrell - Feb 08, 2013 9:22:23 am PST #26037 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh Ginger, what a nightmare for her!


Stephanie - Feb 08, 2013 10:02:55 am PST #26038 of 30001
Trust my rage

Thank you, everyone. Fred, I think you are so right about documenting. Thankfully, the lawyer in me has made me scan everything.

I thought I would just share with everyone that while all that craziness did happen yesterday, I also got my period this morning. Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.


sj - Feb 08, 2013 10:05:39 am PST #26039 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

There is a driving ban in MA after 4pm today. I'm so glad that TCG ended up getting a day off today and didn't have to worry about driving at all today.


omnis_audis - Feb 08, 2013 10:29:14 am PST #26040 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Stay safe, North Easters! Stay warm too.


Zenkitty - Feb 08, 2013 10:44:11 am PST #26041 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Oh, Ginger, what a nightmare indeed, for her and you. How horrible. Fuck cancer.

Stephanie, good grief, some people suck. Get the restraining order if you have to. It's a PITA but it's the best way to get it on record that she's harassing you. Preaching to the choir, I know. Previous experience with harassment and stalkers has left me with zero tolerance for such people.

Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.

Yep. Even with the Mirena, the hormonal swings still happen. It's truly amazing, the difference it makes in my moods and my feeling of physical health. I long for menopause.


Liese S. - Feb 08, 2013 11:16:32 am PST #26042 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Chemistry is amazingly powerful.

No kidding. And even with my app that tells me when I'm due, I still never suspect, and then I go, oh, yeah, right.


Atropa - Feb 08, 2013 11:21:41 am PST #26043 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.

I have finally learned to look at the calendar when I start feeling really horrible about myself.

I long for menopause.

But this perimenopause thing? DO NOT LIKE. Dammit, I used to never have acne. Not to mention the coin-toss nonsense about if I'm going to be emotionally or physically incapacitated by my period. Which will it be: hysterical sobbing over cute animal pictures on tumblr, or cramps that make me long for death? There's no way of predicting until it happens!

And even with my app that tells me when I'm due

What app do you use? Because I probably should be better about tracking my cycle, if only to better understand/predict the moodswings.