Oh God, Stephanie. I'm so sorry. This is the last kind of drama you need right now.
Get the restraining order. There is no rationalizing crazy.
Pretty cool except for the part where I was really terrified and now my knees are all dizzy.
Willow ,'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Maria - Feb 07, 2013 5:05:39 pm PST #26033 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
quester - Feb 07, 2013 5:53:02 pm PST #26034 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
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Fred Pete - Feb 08, 2013 4:19:16 am PST #26035 of 30001
Ann, that's a ferret.
Stephanie, you're a lawyer so you probably don't need to hear this, but document, document, document. Everything.
The girlfriend is the crazy one. Possibly Sammy's father, depending on how serious he let things get before telling girlfriend about Sammy. But definitely not you.
Can I send you some virtual popcorn?
Ginger - Feb 08, 2013 8:19:32 am PST #26036 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
It's just so trashy and embarrassing....it just makes me feel dumb. And alone.
Never alone.
Also, fuck cancer. My friend who detoured her trip from Texas to Tennessee through Atlanta to drive me home for Christmas has some type of metastatic cancer. They're still trying to track down the source, which is meaning weeks of not knowing anything about how serious it really is.
Burrell - Feb 08, 2013 9:22:23 am PST #26037 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Ugh Ginger, what a nightmare for her!
Stephanie - Feb 08, 2013 10:02:55 am PST #26038 of 30001
Trust my rage
Thank you, everyone. Fred, I think you are so right about documenting. Thankfully, the lawyer in me has made me scan everything.
I thought I would just share with everyone that while all that craziness did happen yesterday, I also got my period this morning. Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.
sj - Feb 08, 2013 10:05:39 am PST #26039 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
There is a driving ban in MA after 4pm today. I'm so glad that TCG ended up getting a day off today and didn't have to worry about driving at all today.
omnis_audis - Feb 08, 2013 10:29:14 am PST #26040 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Stay safe, North Easters! Stay warm too.
Zenkitty - Feb 08, 2013 10:44:11 am PST #26041 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Oh, Ginger, what a nightmare indeed, for her and you. How horrible. Fuck cancer.
Stephanie, good grief, some people suck. Get the restraining order if you have to. It's a PITA but it's the best way to get it on record that she's harassing you. Preaching to the choir, I know. Previous experience with harassment and stalkers has left me with zero tolerance for such people.
Which I should know, after 25 years, that whenever I find myself saying "I suck", 99% of the time, my period is due in a day or two. Chemistry is amazingly powerful.
Yep. Even with the Mirena, the hormonal swings still happen. It's truly amazing, the difference it makes in my moods and my feeling of physical health. I long for menopause.
Liese S. - Feb 08, 2013 11:16:32 am PST #26042 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Chemistry is amazingly powerful.
No kidding. And even with my app that tells me when I'm due, I still never suspect, and then I go, oh, yeah, right.