Unfortunately there isn't much you can do with adults other than present your views and stand your ground. She has the option to have him in her home, but you don't have to ever see him again. I hope it at least has opened a question in her mind. It is really hard to believe someone you care about is evil. I am just so sorry you have to deal with this.
We can come by between classes. Usually I use that time to copy over my class notes with a system of different colored pens. But it's been pointed out to me that that's, you know...insane.
Willow ,'Showtime'
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Laura - Jan 21, 2013 1:46:19 pm PST #25356 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
Vortex - Jan 21, 2013 1:48:43 pm PST #25357 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Laura - Jan 21, 2013 1:53:50 pm PST #25358 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
And an adorable little tummy it is! Seriously, she has a lovely figure.
Hil R. - Jan 21, 2013 2:10:56 pm PST #25359 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I just heard back from the dog rescue place. They're going to send someone over to do a home visit, and check my references, and if all that works out, then I'll get to adopt the dog!
Liese S. - Jan 21, 2013 2:43:42 pm PST #25360 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
No, omnis, there were felony convictions.
The California state government Megan's Law page lists three offenses. Two of them are phrased "prior code" so we're looking at multiple time frames. And the key phrase here is in the middle of the page: "Registrant has subsequent felony conviction(s) but DOJ has no incarceration information for this felony." which reads to me that there were subsequent felony convictions besides these.
"Sheriff's daughter" scapegoat thing could conceivably "explain" 288(c)PRIOR CODE - LEWD OR LASCIVIOUS ACTS WITH A CHILD 14 OR 15 YEARS OF AGE, but I'm skeptical on even that.
But even if that is exactly as he says, it does not explain the remaining two counts of 289(e) SEX PENETRATION WITH FOREIGN OBJECT OF A DRUGGED VICTIM and 261(2) PRIOR CODE - RAPE BY FORCE.
Plus, like I said, potentially additional felony convictions.
sj - Jan 21, 2013 3:05:11 pm PST #25361 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Ugh, omnis. I was worried that he would try to explain it all away. I'm sorry.
Stephanie - Jan 21, 2013 3:48:31 pm PST #25362 of 30001
Trust my rage
I'm not surprised that the guy would try to explain away the convictions. But Ido give him credit for having told your mom. If she has the information then I think you have done what you can. I can't see why you would have any liability beyond the normal kind with him at your house. Not that I would want him sleeping over myself...
billytea - Jan 21, 2013 3:50:30 pm PST #25363 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
I'm going to repeat the previous suggestion: ideally your mother, but if not, you, should talk to the prosecutor involved in the case. (His story has the added benefit - to him - of making the police sound untrustworthy, but if there are previous charges and such, you need to know the evidence and the story on any priors.
smonster - Jan 21, 2013 4:40:24 pm PST #25364 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Man, omnis, that is so tough. I don't trust him, either. Once is an accident, twice is a coincidence, three convictions for sex crimes is OH HELL NO.
Continued dog~ma (heh), Hil!
Pix - Jan 21, 2013 6:39:53 pm PST #25365 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
Crossing fingers for the dog rescue, Hil! If you get the pooch, I suggest enrollment in a beginning obedience class as soon as possible--it's as much about learning how to be a dog owner as it is for the dog, and I find that training is a great way to bond with my dogs.