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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amyth - Nov 10, 2011 1:44:25 am PST #2515 of 30001
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

{{Nora & Tom}} thinking about you both

{{Stephanie}} good luck

{{smonster}} you are doing so well! You can do it! I just wish StW was around to appreciate it. I fell asleep and didn't call my SiL last night, but I will today, so I'll nail down xmas, and make sure to see you! I miss you!


smonster - Nov 10, 2011 2:31:58 am PST #2516 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Lots of wisdom, Stephanie. And speaking as someone who's been on the other side, the painful learning is necessary. I had a close friend try and "fix" me, and when I talked to her about it she couldn't see at all why that might be a bad thing.

Good luck with the tough conversations, Nora. I hope it goes well.

So sad, I have a headache from two glasses of wine. I think I was a little dehydrated from work.

amyth, keep me posted. You are always welcome in the Land of Perpetual Disapproval and Cats.


hippocampus - Nov 10, 2011 3:02:57 am PST #2517 of 30001
not your mom's socks.

Wishing strength to Stephanie & Nora, for vastly different reasons.

Waking up at 2 am because HPF was coughing like she had croup? not fun. Watching her temperature spike from normal to 101.8 in the twenty minutes we had her up to try and steam the cough away? also not fun. Having her run around the house like a loon - a healthy loon - this morning? Baffling.


sj - Nov 10, 2011 3:04:29 am PST #2518 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Stephanie}}}} Best wishes to you.

I do frittatas pretty frequently, but I'm out of cheese at the moment. Thanks for all the tips and encouragement, y'all. It helps so much.

While everything is better with cheese, you can still make a good frittata without out. Cut up any root vegetable you have and roast it is a small (8X8 or 9X9 pan), lower the heat in the oven to 350, add some beaten eggs to the pan (about 5) and cook until set (20 minutes or so).


sj - Nov 10, 2011 3:12:23 am PST #2519 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{Sox}}} I'm glad HPF is feeling better this morning, but you must be exhausted.


hippocampus - Nov 10, 2011 3:31:25 am PST #2520 of 30001
not your mom's socks.

I'm glad HPF is feeling better this morning, but you must be exhausted.

I'm glad she's feeling better too. I hope it sticks.

Right now she's getting set to do a TinyWriMo - she's answering a bunch of questions for writing her novel about an underground fairy named Lily (she's reading Laura Amy Schlitz' The Night Fairy). I'm betting there will be about 20 minutes of quiet, followed by requests to watch Kiki's Delivery Service (yes), Harry Potter (only if I'm desperate), and Star Wars (newp - went back to netflix), followed by sulking, knitting, and then general trashing of the house when I suggest a nap. Then some more working on her story. Then requests for pizza.

Good thing DH has all-day meetings, followed by a late work dinner.


sj - Nov 10, 2011 3:38:02 am PST #2521 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Right now she's getting set to do a TinyWriMo

I'm ded from the cuteness of this.


Stephanie - Nov 10, 2011 5:15:54 am PST #2522 of 30001
Trust my rage

I just wanted to thank everyone for all the warm thoughts. I posted on my blog recently about "my village" and while I didn't mention b.org by name you guys are definitely part of that.

And I feel better about the whole situation this morning. Sometimes you do have to know when to just let go. Hopefully, both my baby and his father will have a long life and can get to know each other during some point, even if it's not at the beginning.


Laura - Nov 10, 2011 5:17:47 am PST #2523 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

It's like, I know you can't fix and change people, but I still want to. Which is really, really frustrating.

Which extends to the people you create. Still painfully observing my child's learning experiences, silently for the most part.

{{Bitches}} Loving thoughts for all.

Working at home today in my jammies. It just seems like the best plan.


ChiKat - Nov 10, 2011 5:20:18 am PST #2524 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Working at home today in my jammies. It just seems like the best plan.

I think that sounds like a fabulous plan.

And, {{{{}}}} for all who needs/wants it.