askye, I'm glad you have a support system. Please continue to lean on them as much as you need to.
Jimmy Olsen jokes're pretty much gonna be lost on you, huh?
Xander ,'The Killer In Me'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Oct 25, 2012 10:04:04 am PDT #21830 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Liese S. - Oct 25, 2012 10:08:07 am PDT #21831 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Good. I'm glad to hear it.
Deena - Oct 25, 2012 10:37:22 am PDT #21832 of 30001
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara
I'm so very sorry, askye. I'm glad you have Will. ~ma to you Frank.
My house is too dark. I have lamps in every corner of the living room and it's still dark. Frustrating.
Cass - Oct 25, 2012 10:55:44 am PDT #21833 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
I am very sorry, askye.
Frank, I hope this time is as peaceful as possible.
billytea - Oct 25, 2012 11:51:23 am PDT #21834 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.
I'm very sorry, askye.
hippocampus - Oct 25, 2012 2:03:35 pm PDT #21835 of 30001
not your mom's socks.
Frank, wishing your family peace and comfort.
So very sorry, askye.
Cash, I sent interview~ma but didn't say so.
Smonster, hope the meds help!
Shir, hope your stitches feel better soon.
Aims - Oct 25, 2012 3:07:34 pm PDT #21836 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.
I am so sorry, askye. Take good care of yourself, sweetheart.
Frank - continued prayers for you and yours.
askye - Oct 25, 2012 3:17:48 pm PDT #21837 of 30001
Thrive to spite them
I called Mom to talk to her again and she and Evander were outside and I got to talk Evander. She told him the other day that Dean was sick and Evander said "I will help take care of him."
Then she told him today that Dean died and Evander said he was sad and that "I don't him to die."
He was willing to talk to me on the phone (sometimes he's too busy playing) and he asked me "Did Dean die?" and I said yes. And he asked "are you sad." I told him I was . He asked if Penny died, I said no she was okay and playing in front of me.
Then he sang me 3 or 4 songs he's learned in preschool.
He was outside barefoot and doing movements to go with the songs and stepped on an acorn which cut the conversation short because he was upset and needed soothing. So I talked to Mom for awhile and then before I hung up Evander said "Bye I love you. I am giving you kisses and waving."
His new thing when someone leaves is to say I love you , give them a kiss, then stand outside and wave goodbye. Unless it's too chilly then he's okay standing in the window. I got the phone version.
I have to admit I was glad we weren't on Skype because I was crying the whole time I was listening to his sweet voice singing to make me feel better.
Connie Neil - Oct 25, 2012 3:28:40 pm PDT #21838 of 30001
brillig
Little kid love is nearly as good as piles of kittens and puppies.
Nora Deirdre - Oct 25, 2012 3:29:44 pm PDT #21839 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Oh, askye. He's so full of love. What a wonderful counterpoint to the awfulness of the day. I'm glad you have him and he has you. I hope you are feeling the love from your mom, Evander, Will, and all of us.