I suggest people who hurt animals for fun.

Goddess, yes. I know there's a reason why the Happy Cat, mostly blind after having been hit, cringes when jacked-up pick-up trucks come roaring by the house. I've heard the bastard laugh.

Poor kitteh!! Bad humans. Not you, Zen, you're a good one.

D came over last night and stayed. We watched the first bit of BBC Sherlock s2 (super fun) and he brought me a TENS unit to try on my hip. I had a little trouble falling asleep until I took half a Xanax, and then I was out like the proverbial light. I think we're going to go watch some burlesque this weekend. He seems super chill and laid back, and yet actually into me. It's kind of a nice feeling.

I was all excited yesterday when I got notice of a message on OKC. Yeah. Until I saw the user name and read the profile. He is looking for a Mommy. He really wants to get married but he likes to wear diapers. Just no. I want to say I'm pretty open minded but I've already raised two kids and divorced another who acted like one. Sigh.

I think I've given up on dating.

He really wants to get married but he likes to wear diapers.

One of my roommates in college dated a man who only ate baby food.

He really wants to get married but he likes to wear diapers.

One of my roommates in college dated a man who only ate baby food.

This is totally judgy and I own that, but there are some weird ass people out there.

I am seeing a new guy who I met on OKC, so there is some hope. We did have an email exchange pretty early on about dealbreakers. He gave me a couple then said one was of the adult variety and wouldn't share unless I asked. Of course, my mind went to stuff like diapers and ended up asking just to get it out of the way. I mean, I'm fairly open minded about stuff as well but there's some really weird stuff out there that I just won't do. Turned out to be something I consider vanilla, so it wasn't a problem, but I did need to verify.

"I, um, well, I like to have sex with--I hope you will not judge me too harshly--with the lights on."

Hoping Tom is doing well.

glad I don't have to date anyone but my DH now.

I do not think cleaning out the fridge should have made me shake

I cannot make the numbers work to go back to michigan for my friend's wake. I'm beyond upset about this. I'll be out in October and visit his family, and our friends, but I want to be there right now and I can't be. I know I'm not the only one who can't make it, so I'm not alone in that. Still, upsetting. Mostly I'm still in shock, though.

Ergh, I'm sorry, Sean. I'm sure they will understand and appreciate it when you do come.

sorry Sean

Sorry scrappy