A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


ChiKat - Sep 12, 2012 8:04:31 am PDT #20079 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

He really wants to get married but he likes to wear diapers.

One of my roommates in college dated a man who only ate baby food.

This is totally judgy and I own that, but there are some weird ass people out there.

I am seeing a new guy who I met on OKC, so there is some hope. We did have an email exchange pretty early on about dealbreakers. He gave me a couple then said one was of the adult variety and wouldn't share unless I asked. Of course, my mind went to stuff like diapers and ended up asking just to get it out of the way. I mean, I'm fairly open minded about stuff as well but there's some really weird stuff out there that I just won't do. Turned out to be something I consider vanilla, so it wasn't a problem, but I did need to verify.


Scrappy - Sep 12, 2012 8:27:28 am PDT #20080 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

"I, um, well, I like to have sex with--I hope you will not judge me too harshly--with the lights on."


beth b - Sep 12, 2012 11:00:55 am PDT #20081 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Hoping Tom is doing well.

glad I don't have to date anyone but my DH now.

I do not think cleaning out the fridge should have made me shake


Sean K - Sep 12, 2012 11:44:36 am PDT #20082 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I cannot make the numbers work to go back to michigan for my friend's wake. I'm beyond upset about this. I'll be out in October and visit his family, and our friends, but I want to be there right now and I can't be. I know I'm not the only one who can't make it, so I'm not alone in that. Still, upsetting. Mostly I'm still in shock, though.


Polter-Cow - Sep 12, 2012 12:00:47 pm PDT #20083 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Ergh, I'm sorry, Sean. I'm sure they will understand and appreciate it when you do come.


beth b - Sep 12, 2012 12:10:16 pm PDT #20084 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sorry Sean

Sorry scrappy


JZ - Sep 12, 2012 12:23:11 pm PDT #20085 of 30001
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I'm so sorry, Sean. Is there any private gesture or ritual you can do on the day of the wake even if you can't physically be there?

eta: Oh, Scrappy, dear. Much love to you and your mother.


Polter-Cow - Sep 12, 2012 12:28:38 pm PDT #20086 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Oh God, Scrappy, I'm sorry.


Typo Boy - Sep 12, 2012 12:46:05 pm PDT #20087 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Scrappy, so sorry.


le nubian - Sep 12, 2012 1:02:22 pm PDT #20088 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

oh geez Scrappy.

do you think it is worth getting a 2nd opinion?