attraction doesn't develop over time for me
Me either. I know within five seconds of meeting someone if I'm ever going to want to get skin-to-skin with them. Usually it's Not, because I'm that way. Sometimes it's Maybe, but I can shrug and forget about it pretty quick if it goes nowhere. I'm trying to recall if there's ever been anyone I wanted to sex up so bad I couldn't stop thinking about it/them, and I don't think so. Real people in real life, I mean; fantasy people in my head don't count! There have certainly been people that I pursued in the moment, but honestly, in those moments I'm usually drunk. Not that I don't meet pretty people when I'm sober; I'm just more reserved and kind of wary.
All of which means my life experiences probably won't be of any help to P.-C. at all.
I mean, it's logical and all but attraction doesn't develop over time for me. I guess I could try not making out with people I'm attracted to... but it doesn't seem likely at this point.
The idea of being attracted to someone enough to want to make out with them without having had multiple conversations with them on multiple occasions is completely foreign to me.
Pete and I were friends before we started dating. BUT when we first met, my immediate thought was,
"Hey, cute guy from England just started working here! But I have a boyfriend. Still, fun to talk to!"
(Apparently Pete's first reaction was,
"Wow, crazy goth girl with big hair. She's cute. Wow, GOTH.")
World domination does sound like fun...
I know, right?!
I would make out with Jensen Ackles in a heartbeat, and he would never have to say a word to me.
I feel like you can't pin your hopes on someone being that way
Maybe I'm wrong about everyone else, but I've certainly been saying "don't pin your hopes". Friendship and dating are not mutually exclusive, but even though she avoided answering when you asked her out, she still seems to be god friend material, and that's clearly not settling.
Who knows--you might have your meet cute at game night, with a different chick.
I would make out with Jensen Ackles in a heartbeat, and he would never have to say a word to me.
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The idea of being attracted to someone enough to want to make out with them without having had multiple conversations with them on multiple occasions is completely foreign to me.
Seriously.
And I wouldn't date Lex Luthor.
But I might date Loki.
I am the date friends type, I think pretty much all of my relationships involved a prior friendship or at least a lot of interaction before dating. I have dated people I didn't really know first, but they pretty much all ended after 2 or 3 dates.
First day of school, peoples!! Kids went off on the bus, I stayed home and dug through our paperwork to find some crucial files. We are trying to refi.
I would make out with Jensen Ackles in a heartbeat, and he would never have to say a word to me.
Granted, the caveat to my previous monologue is, I've never met Tom Hiddleston.
But I have met several people whose on-screen alter egos I have lusted over, and I didn't feel the same about the actual humans.
Except Peter Wingfield.
I've met people for whom it did totally carry over, and boy did I throw judgment (and maybe some underwear) out the window...