Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'
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I feel like you can't pin your hopes on someone being that way
Maybe I'm wrong about everyone else, but I've certainly been saying "don't pin your hopes". Friendship and dating are not mutually exclusive, but even though she avoided answering when you asked her out, she still seems to be god friend material, and that's clearly not settling.
Who knows--you might have your meet cute at game night, with a different chick.
I would make out with Jensen Ackles in a heartbeat, and he would never have to say a word to me.
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The idea of being attracted to someone enough to want to make out with them without having had multiple conversations with them on multiple occasions is completely foreign to me.
Seriously.
And I wouldn't date Lex Luthor.
But I might date Loki.
I am the date friends type, I think pretty much all of my relationships involved a prior friendship or at least a lot of interaction before dating. I have dated people I didn't really know first, but they pretty much all ended after 2 or 3 dates.
First day of school, peoples!! Kids went off on the bus, I stayed home and dug through our paperwork to find some crucial files. We are trying to refi.
I would make out with Jensen Ackles in a heartbeat, and he would never have to say a word to me.
Granted, the caveat to my previous monologue is, I've never met Tom Hiddleston.
But I have met several people whose on-screen alter egos I have lusted over, and I didn't feel the same about the actual humans.
Except Peter Wingfield.
I've met people for whom it did totally carry over, and boy did I throw judgment (and maybe some underwear) out the window...
Silly ita, underwear goes on the floor so you can retrieve it later.
The idea of being attracted to someone enough to want to make out with them without having had multiple conversations with them on multiple occasions is completely foreign to me.
and yes, even if i wen to a dating event.
It would be really difficult to tell if I was into someone or not from a the first couple of times I met them - I can't tell. And trying to get out of a situation because someone else though it meant more to me than it d d- horrifying. ( I don't have any desire to be a heart breaker)
It amazes me that I got married.
it is not as bad as moving, but dating SUCKS.
P-C, the only thing I would add is that if she contacts you again about game night, go, get to know her and others at the event.
But also don't wait around and pine (not suggesting you were, but endorsing), there are other fish in the sea, so find others while not closing other doors.