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Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 02, 2012 6:27:04 pm PDT #18227 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Her estate was spent on her end of life care. Since Tom's dad refuses to sell the house (Eve's half of the house has gone to Tom) we only have rental income to pay for the settlement of the estate. These are solicitor fees and other estate settlement legal fees. I don't even know. I don't even know where the hell the rent money's been going since November.

We just paid the credit card off from our travels there and the funeral costs, too. Like, this week.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 02, 2012 6:34:16 pm PDT #18228 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Ps, I love the Middle East! Great place for shows. Right around the corner from Emily & vwbug's old apartment, too! I also loved T.T. the Bear's club right next to the Middle East. Good times.


Burrell - Aug 02, 2012 7:43:52 pm PDT #18229 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Wait, Tom's dad is alive and his son has to shoulder the costs of the settlement? Ugh Nora, what a mess.


sj - Aug 02, 2012 8:32:50 pm PDT #18230 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

The concert is over and we're driving home. It was an awesome night, but I'm too old to be out this late.


sj - Aug 03, 2012 2:56:39 am PDT #18231 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Gronk.


Liese S. - Aug 03, 2012 3:16:09 am PDT #18232 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yeah, me too, and I don't even have an awesome concert to blame.


sj - Aug 03, 2012 3:20:40 am PDT #18233 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I could have slept in a little later, but I thought I should get up and make coffee for TCG. He likes Amanda Palmer's music well enough, but it probably wouldn't have been his first choice of concerts. I think he had a good time though.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 03, 2012 3:43:02 am PDT #18234 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Wait, Tom's dad is alive and his son has to shoulder the costs of the settlement? Ugh Nora, what a mess.

They are - were - legally separated. And Tom is the executor. I am sure that Eve thought it would be a nice chunk of change for him when she wrote the will, but then her savings disappeared in nursing care.

I think some of this money, come to think of it, is to pay these attorneys in Scotland to act as executor in his stead, since he's not there? Maybe?


sj - Aug 03, 2012 4:25:25 am PDT #18235 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Sitting on a hard wooden bench for several hours has not made my body happy. Last night was one of those nights where I realize I have no idea what having a "normal" body feels like. Most people stood for 4 hours for the concert, and I have no concept of how that works. I'm not saying this for hugs or sympathy, just one of those "huh" moments.


Frankenbuddha - Aug 03, 2012 4:28:53 am PDT #18236 of 30001
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

Nora, it's at a place called The Middle East.

That place rocks! I would have loved to have seen that (and seen you guys). Pity I have to do epic planning to do anything in Boston/Cambridge that late (I HATE driving in the morning rush hour from Salem which is what I have to do for those kind of events; that or take the day off).