I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beth b - Jul 28, 2012 8:40:56 pm PDT #18001 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I just caught up - sending out the ma ~~ not sure when I'lbe on again But I am happy to see all the good advice and sympathy.

we are away fro a few weeks - which is good, bu t t takes a lot to go on vacation when you work ful tim e. Maybe because Matt and I are discussers.

stay well


Cass - Jul 28, 2012 8:46:25 pm PDT #18002 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

{Cass}. And good luck with that cat.

She's sleeping a stoned sleep now. Hopefully she'll get used to it and just actually chill out with Xanax for the rest of moving.

I talked to my mom for a while. I'm freaking out a little but it'll all happen. It'll totally work out. I might even have enough boxes. I have enough tape and paper to wrap stuff. Never run out of tape is the key mantra of moving, right?

Moving sucks. Or, at least, it's really, really hard.


Shir - Jul 28, 2012 9:11:33 pm PDT #18003 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

It is. Though, since I'm a spinster without a lot of property (last move I had 6 boxes, two suitcases and some furniture), trying to find a new place is the part I hate most (and the part I'm currently at. NOT fun).


Cass - Jul 28, 2012 9:22:56 pm PDT #18004 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

(last move I had 6 boxes, two suitcases and some furniture)

I don't think I have a huge amount of things but I have at least sixty boxes. Three suitcases. So much furniture.

I miss the days when everything I owned could actually fit in my car. Except I like things like my dishes and cookware and books. Oh and furniture. But still. It was easier to move.


omnis_audis - Jul 28, 2012 9:28:15 pm PDT #18005 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

::tacklehugs Shir:: You could move here. Just an idea.

Moving sucks. Or, at least, it's really, really hard.
This. Very much this. I'm outta spoons. Leg muscles almost gave out trying to get up from chair. And I can't find my plates and bowls. Mom packed the kitchen. Dunno where any of it is at.

Tomorrow is clean the old place day, then in the afternoon, cable guy comes and hooks me back up.


erin_obscure - Jul 28, 2012 9:51:06 pm PDT #18006 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Cass- glad that complaining helped. It not, you can file complaints w/ Better Business Bureau (for whatever state they run out of) and the Attorney General if they are doing something that seems systematically fraudulent. After my DatenDash scammity scam scam debacle, BBB deal with my complaint very very quickly (they contacted the business within a day) but the OR A.G. is super slow. Got a response from them a couple months later. Both were satisfying complaints to lodge, tho not as immediately satisfying as littering the internet with negative feedback on sites like Angies List. I also had good luck googling the business name plus "scam" or "cheat" and seeing what popped up there.

IOmeN, I formally dropped out of Police Dispatch training. The decision was hard, but also a huge relief. I still have a job, and more predictablility in my schedule as a result. Next year I might even be able to finagle myself something other than a 12 hr night shift, which would be lovely. I'm hanging with a friend, watching sappy movies and drinking wine. Life is good.


Cass - Jul 28, 2012 10:02:00 pm PDT #18007 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I hope that it was a good and feel good decision, Erin. It really sounds like it was and I totally support you in it. Even if it was difficult.


Shir - Jul 28, 2012 10:18:15 pm PDT #18008 of 30001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oh, erin. What a tough decision to make. Clearly it was very important for you and I'm very proud for you trying - having good people to help one go through emergencies is crucial - and I'm sure you made the right choice. I'm glad life is good and for that relief. It's important not to do just what is right, but also what feels right.

I like things like my dishes and cookware and books

Oh yes. Books take more than 1/3 of those 6 boxes (of course, I don't pack whole boxes of just books. It's usually books+clothing. Spare your movers' backs). I'd like more cookware, and more dishes would be great too, but as long as it isn't a necessity it's off the list.

This. Very much this.

Oy. Good luck, dear.


erin_obscure - Jul 29, 2012 1:14:55 am PDT #18009 of 30001
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Thanks! Yeah, it was a really really hard decision and I've been agonizing over it for...a really long time. I know it's the right decision, and I was amazed that my back flare up literally dissolved overnight after I made the decision. I haven't felt this healthy in months. Super hooray for less time studying and more time exercising, spending time with friends, and snuggling with my kitties. Heck, maybe I can even start really dating again. Speaking of which, I was cleaning out my overnight bag today and found a condom that expired in 2009. EXPIRED. In *2009*. That's almost shameful.


§ ita § - Jul 29, 2012 3:14:00 am PDT #18010 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

The crappy internet at the hospital ate a brilliantly poignant post about not setting yourself up for work pain, if you can avoid it. Imagine well-spun good here. And a good onya.

Shit assed dumbfuck.