Strix is the same person who talked about Ringer on FB with you, Cindy.
I changed my username for anonymity purposes a few weeks ago.
And thanks!
I am not...I am not the damsel in distress. I am not some case. I have to work this. I've lived in a cave for 5 years in a world where they killed my kind like cattle. I am not going to be cut down by some monster flu. I am better than that. What a wonder...how very scared I am.
Fred ,'A Hole in the World'
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Strix - Jun 28, 2012 12:30:27 pm PDT #16069 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Topic!Cindy - Jun 28, 2012 12:36:07 pm PDT #16070 of 30001
What is even happening?
Oh, then not who I thought, and now I'm not sure. Pm me on fb, please.
Topic!Cindy - Jun 28, 2012 12:45:00 pm PDT #16071 of 30001
What is even happening?
Never mind, Strix. I figured it out. Well, that's a baldfaced lie. I back channelled it out. Get better, honey.
Maria - Jun 28, 2012 12:47:15 pm PDT #16072 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
can only say that I hope having us here to say the kinds of things you can't say out loud is as much a refuge for you as it was for me.
Fuck yes. I have told you people things I won't tell my own family over the last four months. I seriously would not be half as OK as I am without this place.
{{{Strix}}}
Strix - Jun 28, 2012 1:12:43 pm PDT #16073 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
Fuck yes. I have told you people things I won't tell my own family
WROD.
Er, sorry, Cindy about the obfuscation! Glad you figured it out. I R ME!
Atropa - Jun 28, 2012 1:32:24 pm PDT #16074 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
Fuck yes. I have told you people things I won't tell my own family
YES. This. Talking to you people let's me get things out of my system, and then go "Oh hey, I should do something about that."
Cindy! Strix! Shir! Yaaay peoples.
And happy birthday, Hec!
sj - Jun 28, 2012 1:40:57 pm PDT #16075 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Cindy! Strix! Shir! Yaaay peoples.
What Jilli said.
{{{Strix}}} I'm sorry things have been so difficult lately. I hope as your arm heals and you can type more, you'll begin to feel better.
Cass - Jun 28, 2012 1:57:04 pm PDT #16076 of 30001
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
can only say that I hope having us here to say the kinds of things you can't say out loud is as much a refuge for you as it was for me.
Fuck yes. I have told you people things I won't tell my own family over the last four months. I seriously would not be half as OK as I am without this place.
It is. It is a sanctuary.
I mean, mostly that means I am crying now but at least that is better than the numb depression I've been in for a couple of days. Because numb depression when I am even alone even is bad. I hate crying in front of people but I did in a parking lot today anyway and I am doing it now here. Which is kinda a step forward.
I don't know anything concrete on Dad. I just have lost most of my optimism and I am waiting for some tests that I don't think are going to be great news. And being so far from the house is really isolating in terms of communication.
sj - Jun 28, 2012 2:06:07 pm PDT #16077 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
{{{{{Cass}}}}} You can cry here anytime you need to. I wish I was close enough to give you an actual hug and not just a virtual one. Continued ~ma for your dad.
Liese S. - Jun 28, 2012 2:09:25 pm PDT #16078 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
I'm so sorry, Cass.