I just said that you're pretty. Even when you're covered in...engine grease, you're... No, especially, especially when you're covered in engine grease.

Simon ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - May 28, 2012 5:36:50 pm PDT #14186 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Now to take his number out of my phone so I can't drunk text him and start this thing all over again, which is what happened last time.

Did you do it yet?

Did you do it yet?

...

...

How about now?


WindSparrow - May 28, 2012 5:37:21 pm PDT #14187 of 30001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Seska - lots of good suggestions already. I second the one about putting him in one room on his own until he begins to feel more confident.

Absolutely do not let this cat outside until he knows this is home. It takes at least 10 days, if not longer, to recalibrate what I suspect is a sense of the earths electromagnetic fields. Let him loose before the recalibration process is complete, his navigation system will take him back to his previous home. Let him loose before he wants this to be his home - same thing - in fact I would not be surprised but what part of the recalibration process involves the choice to make the new place home.

One further tip for helping cats get used to each other, is at meal time put their dishes on either side of the door between Merlin's space and your established cats (forgive me, I can't remember their names). That way they begin to associate the presence of the other cat(s) with something nice. Of course, that does not work if they don't have set meal times.


smonster - May 28, 2012 5:40:07 pm PDT #14188 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Done! And R is my witness. I actually had a little knot in my stomach, wasn't expecting that.

Also, Nora, have I mentioned lately that I love you? Totally laughed out loud.


quester - May 28, 2012 5:41:55 pm PDT #14189 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Well, it's his loss, smonster! Good riddance!


Sean K - May 28, 2012 5:47:44 pm PDT #14190 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

WTF. I feel like I want to murder everyone. like, everyone

I also feel like I want to cry.

And it's been a good day. WTF, 42???


Sean K - May 28, 2012 5:48:22 pm PDT #14191 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I feel seriously fucking insane right now.


quester - May 28, 2012 5:49:52 pm PDT #14192 of 30001
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Well, this is the place to bring it, Sean.

Do you need anything?


Pix - May 28, 2012 5:51:34 pm PDT #14193 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Sean, what happened other than having a bit too much to drink today? You were fine an hour ago...?


smonster - May 28, 2012 5:51:34 pm PDT #14194 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Goddammit, I missed a perfectly good chance to write into Yo, Should I Dump This Asshole? Oh well. Y'all are my YSIDTA.

Sean!!! What is going on, darling? Do you know what's triggered this? (Um, and I actually kind of have to go to bed soon, so if I don't answer I'm not ignoring you. If it's an emergency, you can call me)


Sean K - May 28, 2012 5:52:22 pm PDT #14195 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I don't know. I was having a really great day, and suddenly I'm having a spectacularly shitty day out of nowhere. I'm kind of mystified,