Oh dear god. So my father's gf called. Asking if I would call my brother and sister and beg them to call my father. Seems I am the only one who talks to him. And this past week of treatment has stepped up the side effects from the radiation, and he could use some cheering up. WTF?! They live in the same time zone! One of them lives in the same TOWN. Ugg I really do not understand my family. Anyhow, some coninued health~ma for my father would be appreciated. He is starting week 6 of 8 for the radiation treatment.
Buffy: I was regrouping. Spike: You were about to be regrouped into separate piles.
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omnis_audis - May 06, 2012 10:54:04 am PDT #12839 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Laura - May 06, 2012 11:22:14 am PDT #12840 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.
I'm glad your father has you, o-a. I hope your siblings step up.
Typo Boy - May 06, 2012 12:39:04 pm PDT #12841 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
health ~ma for you Dad Omni.And siblings step up~ma too.
sj - May 06, 2012 12:39:54 pm PDT #12842 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
omnis, tons of ~ma for your dad and a clue by four for your siblings.
Maria - May 06, 2012 3:42:55 pm PDT #12843 of 30001
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
What sj and Typo said, o-a.
beth b - May 06, 2012 6:59:10 pm PDT #12844 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
step up family!
omnis_audis - May 06, 2012 8:14:31 pm PDT #12845 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
I called siblings today. Left message for brother. Not uncommon. He always screens calls, and rarely picks up. I called sister, she was taking a nap. Talked to neice. Asked her to tell sister to call me when she wakes. She never did. Not sure if that's sister flaking, or neice not passing along message.
OK, brain hurting. Doing programming for ND. My notes at 3am weren't quite complete. Trying to remember what needs doing. Ouch.
Toddson - May 07, 2012 5:27:38 am PDT #12846 of 30001
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
You know some of my co-workers and I were talking about Scandal and Revenge and it struck me - two very popular new shows, with action, intrigue, etc., and the protagonists are women. And women are fairly high up on the list of antagonists. Add in Once Upon A Time, where the two main characterss are women, and it's looking interesting. And they're all on ABC.
It just struck me ... so often, in these nighttime shows, women will be "the girl" "the romantic interest" but not really active. It may not mean anything, but I find it interesting.
sj - May 07, 2012 6:42:35 am PDT #12847 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
So far today is not going well. I may need a do over.
Nora Deirdre - May 07, 2012 8:31:49 am PDT #12848 of 30001
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Omnis, I can understand how frustrating your siblings' lack of participation is upsetting for you and your father. Just keep in mind that it's actually their issue, not yours. Just do what you can do to connect with your dad as you've been doing. It's actually kind of not cool for your dad's gf to put this on you to solve or fix. It's their decisions to not reach out to your dad, and they may feel like they need to do so for whatever reasons that makes sense to them. It's not your problem to solve. Just keep doing your own thing with him.
I know in my past I have had to step away from family situations because they were unhealthy. I had my reasons, and I also didn't always share them with my sister because I didn't want to taint her relationship with them.
Sj, I hope your day gets better! Sorry it's sucking so far.