Seriously.
Just tryin' a little spicy talk.
Tara ,'Get It Done'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 9:03:19 am PDT #10401 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
omnis_audis - Mar 25, 2012 9:53:04 am PDT #10402 of 30001
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir
Some progress shots on what we are doing today...loading in a ballroom, for the USITT theater convention that is in town. Some photosynth process shots:
Empty room [link]
Stuff arrives [link]
Staging Truss [link]
Truss 1/4 way up [link]
Burrell - Mar 25, 2012 10:04:28 am PDT #10403 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
Ugh sj, sorry about MiL stress. I agree with the advice to just develop a thick skin if possible.
And Sean, I recommend just ignoring the ex-friend entirely if you can.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 10:11:40 am PDT #10404 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
That's pretty much my plan. My big fear right now is that before I shut off communication completely, he threatened to start contacting *everyone* I know, and then started making good on the threat. I don't know how to ignore this spreading to everybody else I know, and I don't have any room to compensate for the kind of damage he might be able to do by doing that.
Connie Neil - Mar 25, 2012 10:15:00 am PDT #10405 of 30001
brillig
Hopefully the vast majority of the people he contacts are smart enough to go "Who the hell is this loon?" and not take him seriously.
le nubian - Mar 25, 2012 10:15:55 am PDT #10406 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."
Sean,
preemptive strikes. Contact employers first and let them know you have a stalker. People tend to be pretty sympathetic when it comes to stalking issues.
Pix - Mar 25, 2012 10:20:59 am PDT #10407 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.
I was about to say what Le N said.
smonster - Mar 25, 2012 10:21:41 am PDT #10408 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I think le n might have the right idea. Get your message out first.
Cool pictures, omnis!
I did all the dishes, cleaned the stove, swept the kitchen, broke down some boxes, and talked to family. Now time to shower and go see Hunger Games! Whee!
Scrappy - Mar 25, 2012 10:48:28 am PDT #10409 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Contact employers first and let them know you have a stalker.
I agree. It happens more than you might think. We have had two employees have to alert us aboutthis kind of thing One had a restraining order out on an ex, who had come to her home and threatened to come to the office. The other was in your shoes, with a person who "might" just call us out of sheer assholishness. Businesses tend to understand this--there are a LOT of no-boundary-having troubled people out there.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 10:51:30 am PDT #10410 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Working on it right now.