Contacthim. Tell him you are not depressed, you are just cutting him out of you life and that if he contacts anyone else implying you are suicidal you will sue him for slander. YOu know better than I if he is the type where that would work. But I would at least consider it.
Saffron: He's my husband. Mal: Well, who in the damn galaxy ain't?
'Trash'
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Typo Boy - Mar 25, 2012 8:25:04 am PDT #10391 of 30001
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 8:31:59 am PDT #10392 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
I did that. It has not worked.
Everything I have done to de-escalate the problem has resulted in a new escalation.
My last email, I did straight up tell him to stop harassing me or I would be calling the police and then calling a lawyer.
Now I think the only thing left I can do is continue to bring down the iron curtain and shut him out completely. Nipping any further problems in the bud where I can, and just dealing with the rest as best I can.
I am *really* tired of alcoholics causing problems in my life.
sj - Mar 25, 2012 8:34:55 am PDT #10393 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I am *really* tired of alcoholics causing problems in my life.
Very understandable. I can't wait to get away from the late night drunken rages of my upstairs neighbors. If he does start harassing employers with his paranoid delusions, would a restraining order be possible.
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 8:36:54 am PDT #10394 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
I don't know, but we're going to find out if this keeps up.
§ ita § - Mar 25, 2012 8:37:47 am PDT #10395 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Isn't the process of getting a new house rated pretty high on the life stresses list? I hate when people act like you need to treate them like a "loved one" and they aren't remotely returning the favour, even though you're the one in more need right now.
You and TCG have perfectly valid things to be stressing about right now. A mother should purposefully recuse herself from that list.
God, I'm naive.
sj - Mar 25, 2012 8:40:46 am PDT #10396 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
You and TCG have perfectly valid things to be stressing about right now. A mother should purposefully recuse herself from that list.
But that would mean it was about us. It's never about us.
Speaking about stress. Can I stress out about one more thing? I have an appointment with a new OBGYN tomorrow to talk about the possibility of getting pregnant sometime in the near future and I am (hopefully irrationally) stressed that the doctor will say something along the lines of "how dare you consider getting pregnant?"
Sean K - Mar 25, 2012 8:42:19 am PDT #10397 of 30001
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty
Thankfully, he lives in Indiana, so there's (hopefully) a physical limit to how much he can do.
sj - Mar 25, 2012 8:42:58 am PDT #10398 of 30001
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Thankfully, he lives in Indiana, so there's (hopefully) a physical limit to how much he can do.
Now we just need a way to cut off his internet and phone.
Polter-Cow - Mar 25, 2012 8:52:06 am PDT #10399 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
Local EMP?
Connie Neil - Mar 25, 2012 9:02:13 am PDT #10400 of 30001
brillig
Never one around when you need it.