Thankfully, he lives in Indiana, so there's (hopefully) a physical limit to how much he can do.
Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Thankfully, he lives in Indiana, so there's (hopefully) a physical limit to how much he can do.
Now we just need a way to cut off his internet and phone.
Local EMP?
Never one around when you need it.
Seriously.
Some progress shots on what we are doing today...loading in a ballroom, for the USITT theater convention that is in town. Some photosynth process shots:
Empty room [link]
Stuff arrives [link]
Staging Truss [link]
Truss 1/4 way up [link]
Ugh sj, sorry about MiL stress. I agree with the advice to just develop a thick skin if possible.
And Sean, I recommend just ignoring the ex-friend entirely if you can.
That's pretty much my plan. My big fear right now is that before I shut off communication completely, he threatened to start contacting *everyone* I know, and then started making good on the threat. I don't know how to ignore this spreading to everybody else I know, and I don't have any room to compensate for the kind of damage he might be able to do by doing that.
Hopefully the vast majority of the people he contacts are smart enough to go "Who the hell is this loon?" and not take him seriously.
Sean,
preemptive strikes. Contact employers first and let them know you have a stalker. People tend to be pretty sympathetic when it comes to stalking issues.