Zoe: First rule of battle, little one. Don't ever let 'em know where you are. Mal: Whoo-hoo! I'm right here! I'm right here! You want some of me? Yeah, you do! Come on! Come on! Aaah! Whoo-hoo! Zoe: Of course, there are other schools of thought...

'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 47: Someone Dangerous Could Get In  

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le nubian - Mar 20, 2012 3:28:15 pm PDT #10161 of 30001
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

geez askye. how sad.


Anne W. - Mar 20, 2012 3:35:56 pm PDT #10162 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Question for the group. I just had a huge anxiety-provoking fight with my mom. Things are going to be okay, but I'm a wreck at the moment and am worried I will not be able to sleep. I sometimes take 10mg of Ambien to help me sleep. How bad would it be if I took 15 or 20 tonight?


Anne W. - Mar 20, 2012 3:36:18 pm PDT #10163 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

And because it needs its own post:

askye, that is awful. I am so sorry.


Dana - Mar 20, 2012 3:42:10 pm PDT #10164 of 30001
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

Anne, I will say that I've taken 20mg and it hasn't killed me. Maybe try 15 and keep that extra half in reserve?


askye - Mar 20, 2012 3:43:13 pm PDT #10165 of 30001
Thrive to spite them

I think you'll be okay. You might be a little more groggy in the morning.


billytea - Mar 20, 2012 3:44:35 pm PDT #10166 of 30001
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

askye, that's awful. I'm sorry to hear that.


Steph L. - Mar 20, 2012 3:46:00 pm PDT #10167 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Maybe try 15 and keep that extra half in reserve?

This. *Or* take 10 at first and see if you fall asleep, but if you can't, take another 5 and see if it nudges you over. But 10 mg might really do it despite the stress (I've been surprised at a regular Ambien dose putting me to sleep when I've been stressed off the charts -- but I realize I'm also just anecdata). And knowing you *can* take more if needed might take the edge off ("the edge" being the worry of "FUCK, what if I can't fall asleep...I really need to fall asleep...FUCK I'm still awake DAMN IT...").


Anne W. - Mar 20, 2012 4:15:16 pm PDT #10168 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Thank you all very much. I've had a rough time of late, and this just sent me over the edge.


beth b - Mar 20, 2012 4:22:35 pm PDT #10169 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry askye


Laura - Mar 20, 2012 4:23:27 pm PDT #10170 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I'm sorry, Anne. May you achieve renewing rest, alternating between bliss filled dreams and deep sound renewing sleep.

So very sad, askye. What a nightmare.