This doesn't feel like self-improvement month; it feels like gin rickey month.
A fucking men, sister.
Sometimes when I'm sitting in class... You know, I'm not thinking about class, 'cause that would never happen. I think about kissing you. And it's like everything stops. It's like, it's like freeze frame. Willow kissage.
Oz ,'First Date'
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amych - Jul 21, 2011 3:35:49 pm PDT #210 of 1416
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Ginger - Jul 21, 2011 4:01:34 pm PDT #211 of 1416
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda
What can I say that doesn't sound desperate?
I don't think you need to specifically remind him about the referrals. Just send the articles and say something like, "I thought you might find these helpful."
beekaytee - Jul 21, 2011 5:27:59 pm PDT #212 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant
Check. Desperation talk duly redacted.
Just the two links and a hearty, Enjoy!
Thanks.
beekaytee - Jul 21, 2011 6:32:10 pm PDT #213 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant
My oldest friend opted out of my mailing list today.
A fact that has no particular meaning, and yet, I'm bummed.
Sheesh. I try to provide decent content, but is just goes nowhere.
Feh.
If I knew the right thing to do, I'd do it, dammit!
Strix - Jul 22, 2011 3:23:17 am PDT #214 of 1416
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
bonny, maybe she opted out of the list because she visits your site a lot, and her in-box is just getting too much stuff from all her internet stuff to keep up with?
hippocampus - Jul 22, 2011 3:38:54 am PDT #215 of 1416
not your mom's socks.
OH GOD OH GOD MY EYES PLEASE STAB ME A THOUSAND TIMES WITH A PITCHFORK INSTEAD.
Clown Pants Design.
Toddson - Jul 22, 2011 4:20:19 am PDT #216 of 1416
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"
Rather than grammar nazi, how about grammar dominatrix?
beekaytee - Jul 22, 2011 6:32:24 am PDT #217 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant
Erin, my friend is fairly prominent on the 'net and I'm assuming he has enough to deal with in his inbox, but it was still a little sad making.
After giving it some thought, a fairly significant epiphany came to me. (are there any INsignificant epiphanies?)
Lots of people are uncomfortable with talking about money. Given the issues that I've had myself, it makes sense that I would have populated my life with people of similar views.
My friends are not my client base, so it makes sense that they would not want to hear about this stuff.
Given this, I need to find the people for whom what I have to offer is a value.
I just wish I knew the best way to do that...like, now.
But more than anything, I realize that I have to STOP looking backward for my support. That's a tough one.
Strix - Jul 22, 2011 7:11:43 am PDT #218 of 1416
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger
bonny, that's a positive realization.
I know we talked about posting on blogs, and this is a nice, positive, woman-run, female-oriented website I subscribed to for my own money issues: [link]
You might look at things and comment with your professional name, website and email addy.
What about blogging on BlogHer? I've only posted one post there, and I got a few hits.
beekaytee - Jul 22, 2011 7:39:16 am PDT #219 of 1416
Compassionately intolerant
Thanks Erin. That is an excellent tip.