You got fired, and you still hang around here like a big loser. Why can't he?

Cordelia ,'Chosen'


Natter 68: Bork Bork Bork  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


msbelle - Sep 16, 2011 11:11:58 am PDT #26645 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Ginger I have a great recipe for pumpkin muffins that could easily be made as bread and it uses 1 can. Remind me to post. ACtually it is on Allrecipes.com and I think it is called Pumpkin Muffins II. It may call for using a fresh pumpkin, but a1 reg can does good.


Cashmere - Sep 16, 2011 11:15:27 am PDT #26646 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I still have frozen pumpkin from last year in my freezer. I should really try to use that up.

Called Mom. Dad said Joe could stay with them. Beautiful. Mom said she wouldn't call me anymore because she can't stand to hear me upset. No, Mom, I can't stand thinking that you guys are going to get hurt trying to fulfill your parental duty. Nothing is going to change with this situation until someone gets injured. Gah.

I'm going to derby practice later and hit something.


Ginger - Sep 16, 2011 11:15:37 am PDT #26647 of 30001
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I see those, msbelle. Thanks. I think I'll use about those proportions, although maybe not that much sugar. I was going to use the whole can and wing it, but there was a lot of math involved.


javachik - Sep 16, 2011 11:22:23 am PDT #26648 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Cashmere, your situation reminds me of children of elderly who ruin their own personal health trying to take care of a parent or two with huge medical/aging issues instead of placement into an assisted living center or Skilled Nursing Center. There can be a "we can't turn this over to managed care because it means we're crappy kids who don't care about our parent" mentality that is so much more harmful than helpful. And of course add in the unpredictable nature of schizophrenia and it's exponently complicated. Do your parents feel like they can't lay the "burden" of their son's care on someone else? Do they feel guilty?

The whole situation is so, so shitty and I am sorry for everyone involved.


Amy - Sep 16, 2011 11:23:06 am PDT #26649 of 30001
Because books.

Cash, I'm so sorry. I know how hard it is for you, and I know they must think they're doing the right thing. I watched this happen with my BiL, too, and it's not at all easy.

Hit everything you can, hard. (But don't hurt yourself.)


msbelle - Sep 16, 2011 11:30:05 am PDT #26650 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Ginger I use half the sugar and I also use half WW flour.


amych - Sep 16, 2011 11:31:31 am PDT #26651 of 30001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Cash, I'm so sorry. Safety Net, my pink ass. I'm wishing everyone safety and stability until they can get your bro back on meds and stabilized: mean time, go hit something.


Jesse - Sep 16, 2011 11:32:15 am PDT #26652 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

OK, can I just say? This is why coworkers like me: I'm waiting on some stuff that has been promised to me before the end of the day. I.e., a half hour from now. Coworker calls me frantic, says she's working on it, probably needs 10 minutes. I say, OK, thanks! She was like, "....that was a much easier conversation than I was expecting." Hee. I'm like, dude! Stop talking, keep typing! No worries!


msbelle - Sep 16, 2011 11:52:58 am PDT #26653 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Cash, I have no words, but my thoughts are with you and your family. Do they have any support system nearby that you could call on to check on them?


SuziQ - Sep 16, 2011 11:53:02 am PDT #26654 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Jesse, my favorite variant of that is having a PM call me fussing about having to fill in something I sent when it would take less time to just fill in the information. Grrrr, quit fussing and trying to throw your muscle around. I'm trying to make your job easier, dude.