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ChiKat - Sep 09, 2011 5:21:56 pm PDT #25256 of 30001

That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

It's all so goddamned unfair.

Yes. Yes, it is completely unfair.

Sure, everyone makes mistakes, but what mistake deserves this?

No mistake deserves this. None. You have done nothing wrong. Crappy things happen. I wish I coud tell you there is some higher purpose or whatever, but I can't really do that. All I can tell you is you did nothing to deserve this. This is not your fault.

I can also tell you that you can come here anytime and vent, rage, question, cry, ask for hugs, whatever. It is not a burden on us. It is a blessing to be your friend and if we can support you via the internet wires, let us.

Zenkitty - Sep 09, 2011 5:22:14 pm PDT #25257 of 30001

Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

this isn’t drama. This is crisis

Exactly this.

Allyson - Sep 09, 2011 5:24:11 pm PDT #25258 of 30001

Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

I'm usually in here taking up two pages because I think I'm fat and have split ends. Seriously, Maria, that's what the board is here for. Screaming into the interwebs and having a bunch of people tell you that you're going to be okay, all the time, until you're okay.

Ginger - Sep 09, 2011 5:28:06 pm PDT #25259 of 30001

"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

You're the only one going through this now, Maria. The board is yours.

Anger is not a bad response at this point. You'll both be angry, because it's not fucking fair. Anger will get you further than acceptance.

shrift - Sep 09, 2011 5:31:22 pm PDT #25260 of 30001

"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Dude, the only thing I was using the board for today was to pontificate about Rafael Nadal's posterior. I think there's enough space here for whatever you need it for, Maria.

Anne W. - Sep 09, 2011 5:32:23 pm PDT #25261 of 30001

The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

We are here for you, as long as you need us.

sumi - Sep 09, 2011 5:36:40 pm PDT #25262 of 30001

Art Crawl!!!

Maria - God. . . I am just so sorry and yeah - this board is totally here for you to say all the things you need to say so that you can be the person you need to be for your dh and your family.

Liese S. - Sep 09, 2011 5:39:10 pm PDT #25263 of 30001

"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I say that, AND I say that we will also continue to talk about the silliness and interesting things and whatnot that makes up our regular days. That way you won't feel like you've derailed us, and you can also have some distractions when you need it. But don't let that deter you, either, you speak up any moment you need to.

-t - Sep 09, 2011 5:40:56 pm PDT #25264 of 30001

I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Crap. Maria, I am so sorry. It isn't just, there's nothing like justice involved.

Lee - Sep 09, 2011 5:41:35 pm PDT #25265 of 30001

The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Perkins, I may need to ask you and Ginger lots of questions about dealing with this. Please tell me when I overstep my bounds.

Oh, sweetie, anything you need, whenever.

Also, there are support groups for spouses of people with cancer. Would you like one of us to look into a DC group for you?

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