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Natter 67: Overriding Vetoes  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, nail polish, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Connie Neil - Feb 05, 2011 2:27:27 pm PST #21256 of 30001
brillig

Hubby and I have separate blankets and sheets. We settled on that very early in the relationship.


Liese S. - Feb 05, 2011 2:29:55 pm PST #21257 of 30001
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I probably need to get Superbowl supplies too. We were, in fact, invited to two separate superbowl parties, including one by a local chef who is serving sushi, but woes, I don't think we're going to either because the SO's sinus infection is still raging and he'll be wiped after being out all day today and I hate the Steelers with a fiery passion that I'm maybe not ready to let locals see.


beekaytee - Feb 05, 2011 2:32:44 pm PST #21258 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Hubby and I have separate blankets and sheets. We settled on that very early in the relationship.

This seems to me to be the only solution. Although I have never been able to sleep in the same place with another living creature, I did try it a few times with the Fela. On those occasions, there were two sets of everything and it worked well.


Hil R. - Feb 05, 2011 2:38:08 pm PST #21259 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I made spinach and cauliflower lasagna for dinner. It's pretty good, but I'm not sure it's worth the effort of mashing the cauliflower and using a ton of dishes to make it. But, on the other hand, this is enough for at least six meals, so I guess that was six meals worth of effort, so it works out.


-t - Feb 05, 2011 2:52:32 pm PST #21260 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I change the sheets every two weeks (in theory, in practice it's when I get around to it, like everything else) and turn the mattress four times a year (I'm actually pretty good about that) as instructed by the manufacturer, or possibly the seller, but there were instructions that I follow.


Connie Neil - Feb 05, 2011 2:58:03 pm PST #21261 of 30001
brillig

How often do people who share a bed with someone else wind up snuggling together while sleeping? I can manage resting a hand or foot against Hubby, but the whole romantic, "lying in one another's arms" thing makes me nuts while trying to actually sleep.


Scrappy - Feb 05, 2011 3:00:07 pm PST #21262 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

How often do people who share a bed with someone else wind up snuggling together while sleeping?

Never, nada, niente. I am a mad snuggler while awake, but don't touch me when I'm trying to sleep. Luckily, DH is of the same temperament.


Steph L. - Feb 05, 2011 3:01:19 pm PST #21263 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

How often do people who share a bed with someone else wind up snuggling together while sleeping?

Well, I don't know, since I'm unconscious, but I'm guessing, based on where we are if I wake up in the middle of the night, there's no snuggling while sleeping.


beekaytee - Feb 05, 2011 3:08:32 pm PST #21264 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

The first bf I tried to sleep with was very sweet about touching in the night. Actually, just like Bartleby in a cute way I never thought of until now. He'd respect my space, but several times a night, he would rouse and look around to make sure I was there. Maybe put a hand out to touch me and then fall back to the pillow.

I don't think he was ever fully conscious but, obviously, I was.


-t - Feb 05, 2011 3:10:50 pm PST #21265 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

DH was a very snuggly sleeper. It had been an issue with previous girlfriends to the point where he was really relieved that I was fine with it.