bonny, I am logging in from France just to tell you that you were not stupid. Love and friendship require risks and sometimes they just don't pay off. You're awesome and I hope to meet you offline soon.
Thanks Java! Me too, you.
And France! How lovely. A good friend is flying to London for Thanksgiving and will 'chunnel' her way to Paris the day after. I am positively thrilled for her.
Her -for all intends and purposes- stepdaughter is interning at the Old Globe. How cool is that?
Which leads me to a question for anyone who has ever been to that theatre. I recently watched an episode of "Time Team", a Brit show about architecture. They showed the inside of the Globe during a rain storm. Were my eyes deceiving me, or is there no roof?
Huh. A venue in Britain with no roof. Do plays go on in the rain?
There is no roof. They needed the natural light for the performances.
They needed the natural light for the performances.
Of course. That makes sense.
I guess, if performances do go on in the rain, that just adds to the adventure.
You guys need to post links like that to the tumblr.
I don't have a tumblr account.
She IS so sensitive to her own fears and defenses that she cannot be sensitive to the emotional needs of others. Given her closer relationships with some truly difficult people, that makes sense.
I'll note here that it took me a long time to realize that we have different words for "sympathetic" and "empathetic" for a reason.
Somebody can be naturally sympathetic, expressing concern or compassion for your plight without being empathetic - being able to read, or know your emotions. This can lead to a lot of confusion and tension when somebody who has been sympathetic turns out to be not so empathetic.
I don't think it's necessarily something that can be learned. Some people are just better are reading those feelings.
I don't have a tumblr account.
You don't need one -- there's a link on the right side of the page that says "submit here".
You guys need to post links like that to the tumblr.
I don't have a tumblr account.
I think she means to the Good Stuff Happened Today tumblr.
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Ooops, I misunderstood. Sorry.
