Angel: Is that what you think you are--a hero? Spike: Saved the world didn't I? Angel: Once. Talk to me after you've done it a couple more times.

'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Nov 11, 2010 3:45:34 pm PST #8251 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Yay elope and post!

I'm glad your freshmakers are doing you proud, smonster.


omnis_audis - Nov 11, 2010 3:59:48 pm PST #8252 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Remember that fab cheesecake I went on about? I sent a note to Maggiano's, and they replied with:

So glad to hear you enjoyed the Pumpkin Cheesecake...it is one of my favorites, too! All we can share with regard to how the cheesecake is made is that the crust is a gingersnap crust and the pie topping is a cinnamon whipped cream with pecan praline crumbles on top. Yum!

Yum indeed!


sj - Nov 11, 2010 4:03:24 pm PST #8253 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Someone tell me to let go of the fact that my supposed BFF whose wedding I was in last month, has not called to wish me well. Maybe she'll call tomorrow, but I plan on shutting my phone off.


Laga - Nov 11, 2010 4:08:28 pm PST #8254 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I'm sure she's thinking of you but she figures you two want to be alone.


beth b - Nov 11, 2010 4:11:38 pm PST #8255 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

sj, she might not want to bother you. So let it go. you and TCG are the important people today and tomorrow.

Javachik, there is probably a lot more to go in my closet. there are a few things I love, but may never wear again. I figure they have 6 more months to go.


JZ - Nov 11, 2010 4:12:36 pm PST #8256 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Let it go, sj. Tonight and tomorrow and the next few days are all about letting go of the bad stuff, troubling stuff, gnawing stuff. You don't need her wishes (and possibly she's not calling on purpose so as not to intrude), or anyone else's, even ours (though we're all squeeing with joy for you anyway). These few days are about you and TCH and this joyful step you are taking together into the rest of your lives.


sj - Nov 11, 2010 4:18:03 pm PST #8257 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Thanks. There is a larger pattern working here where I only seem to get calls when the conversation starts with "I need...", but I can't change her and should let it go.


brenda m - Nov 11, 2010 4:18:06 pm PST #8258 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

She doesn't want to bother you tonight. (I adore your W&P but I would never in a million years call tonight.) You'll hear from her after the weekend.


sj - Nov 11, 2010 4:19:33 pm PST #8259 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I didn't really want her to call tonight, but earlier this week would have been nice.


Pix - Nov 11, 2010 4:33:18 pm PST #8260 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Congrats, sj! Enjoy your elopement, and I agree that you should try to let go of the friend thing if you can. You can has husband tomorrow! Yay!