Book: Yes, I'd forgotten you're moonlighting as a criminal mastermind now. Got your next heist planned? Simon: No. But I'm thinking about growing a big black mustache. I'm a traditionalist.

'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Cass - Aug 28, 2010 11:02:49 am PDT #419 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Aims, great photos! Fantastic looking bathroom.


Aims - Aug 28, 2010 11:03:58 am PDT #420 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Course now the rest of the house looks like shit, but that will be fixed next week.


omnis_audis - Aug 28, 2010 11:07:10 am PDT #421 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

We do not honor objects, or our memories of them, but having them hidden. That was so important for me to understand.
Oooo! I like that! It will work with some of Mom's crap. Alas, she is known for saving weekly fliers, "to compare price trends". @@.

ION - I did a picture test on OKcupid. They show your pictures and other folks pictures to a bunch of people, and see who does and doesn't pic your picture. It seems my pictures have a negative impact on women. The majority of them were not picked. It seems the pics of me with other women had the most negative reaction. I need new pics of me. I hate pics of me. And don't have a lot of them. Uggg.

eta: removed link to test results, as it has been deleted, and started new test with new pics on profile.


Spidra Webster - Aug 28, 2010 11:20:20 am PDT #422 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Yeah, I used to give het guys advice on what pics to post on personals sites. Not having pictures of other women with you (unless you're in a big group) was definitely on the "do not" list. Also don't have your only pic be of you wearing sunglasses. Also, use a nice close-up picture instead of having a picture of a landscape with teeny you in it. I should see if I still have that post hanging around somewhere.

I hate having to think about personals profiles, though. I rewrote my OKCupid one lately but I don't hold out much hope. The best personals site I ever did was Nerve.com before it got bought up by Spring Street Networks.


Beverly - Aug 28, 2010 11:28:07 am PDT #423 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Aims, you're an inspiration! Not only for the terrific-looking bath, but for getting the pictures up. ::Kicks self::

Pix and ND, all possible health and pain-ease thoughts to you. Trudy and amyth, the same to your families. There's just too much illness among Buffistas and their families lately.

P-C, Cass mentions a valid point. I know you and your brother need to stay strong in your POV, and I wish you much determination and courage. But your love for your parents, while tested severely, is never misplaced. It sucks like a Hoover to have to be the grownups in this situation, but that's how the circumstances fall. All possible good luck to you and your family in sorting this out with the least amount of lingering harm.


Spidra Webster - Aug 28, 2010 11:30:56 am PDT #424 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Congrats on getting the bathroom decorated, Aims!


Hil R. - Aug 28, 2010 11:34:49 am PDT #425 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Oops. I've become a craigslist flake. I was supposed to pick up an end table this afternoon, but I took a nap instead.


Aims - Aug 28, 2010 11:50:22 am PDT #426 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Thanks! It feels so good to have it DONE with!!

We do Em's room tomorrow.


omnis_audis - Aug 28, 2010 12:37:04 pm PDT #427 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

ok, time to find new pics that *don't* have women in it. Thanks Spidra.


omnis_audis - Aug 28, 2010 1:00:30 pm PDT #428 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

OK, I put new pics up, and removed the ones with other women. But I left the one of me and my sister at her wedding. It's labeled as such.