We do not honor objects, or our memories of them, but having them hidden. That was so important for me to understand.
Oooo! I like that! It will work with some of Mom's crap. Alas, she is known for saving weekly fliers, "to compare price trends". @@.
ION - I did a picture test on OKcupid. They show your pictures and other folks pictures to a bunch of people, and see who does and doesn't pic your picture. It seems my pictures have a negative impact on women. The majority of them were not picked. It seems the pics of me with other women had the most negative reaction. I need new pics of me. I hate pics of me. And don't have a lot of them. Uggg.
eta:
removed link to test results, as it has been deleted, and started new test with new pics on profile.
Yeah, I used to give het guys advice on what pics to post on personals sites. Not having pictures of other women with you (unless you're in a big group) was definitely on the "do not" list. Also don't have your only pic be of you wearing sunglasses. Also, use a nice close-up picture instead of having a picture of a landscape with teeny you in it. I should see if I still have that post hanging around somewhere.
I hate having to think about personals profiles, though. I rewrote my OKCupid one lately but I don't hold out much hope. The best personals site I ever did was Nerve.com before it got bought up by Spring Street Networks.
Aims, you're an inspiration! Not only for the terrific-looking bath, but for getting the pictures up. ::Kicks self::
Pix and ND, all possible health and pain-ease thoughts to you. Trudy and amyth, the same to your families. There's just too much illness among Buffistas and their families lately.
P-C, Cass mentions a valid point. I know you and your brother need to stay strong in your POV, and I wish you much determination and courage. But your love for your parents, while tested severely, is never misplaced. It sucks like a Hoover to have to be the grownups in this situation, but that's how the circumstances fall. All possible good luck to you and your family in sorting this out with the least amount of lingering harm.
Congrats on getting the bathroom decorated, Aims!
Oops. I've become a craigslist flake. I was supposed to pick up an end table this afternoon, but I took a nap instead.
Thanks! It feels so good to have it DONE with!!
We do Em's room tomorrow.
ok, time to find new pics that *don't* have women in it. Thanks Spidra.
OK, I put new pics up, and removed the ones with other women. But I left the one of me and my sister at her wedding. It's labeled as such.
Hahaha! You gotta laugh at the OK Cupid users who write tests. One wrote a result that says "Amature Porn" and another one wrote a result "Eurkea!"
LOVE the bathroom, Empress! Purty towels.