Right, what's a little sweater sniffing between sworn enemies?

Riley ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Kate P. - Sep 01, 2011 12:34:47 pm PDT #28847 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I agree with Sox, especially re: the underage part. Do you feel like you can ignore the email, or do you want to give her some kind of response? I admit I want someone to step in and give her some good advice (with the words "age of consent" prominently featured), but it may not be your place to do it.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:35:04 pm PDT #28848 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I would have no idea how to google that and get anything other than porn.

Yeah. Which is why I'm not googling.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:35:45 pm PDT #28849 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I admit I want someone to step in and give her some good advice (with the words "age of consent" prominently featured), but it may not be your place to do it.

That's where I'm at. I really, really want someone to give her advice, but I am not the person to do so.


hippocampus - Sep 01, 2011 12:37:16 pm PDT #28850 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Sox, I know you're freaking, but I have to admit, your "God of all..." designation made me snort Diet Coke up my nose at the visuals it conjured.

It was that big. And it might be angry, because....

Sox, make an offering or libation of beer. It'll die happy and might do your compost some good (if it weren't compost, I'd suggest salt, but there's a reason for the phrase "sowing the ground with salt").

I may have done something like that earlier this spring to its followers. OMG I hate these things.


hippocampus - Sep 01, 2011 12:40:47 pm PDT #28851 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

Jilli - (and I say this suspecting that I heard somewhere that Dr. Drew is being a huge ass, so I am wishing he weren't) someone like the aforementioned likely-ass, but not, you know, ass-ish, Dr. Drew?


Nora Deirdre - Sep 01, 2011 12:42:06 pm PDT #28852 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Can anyone recommend a good place for a plus-size woman to buy a non-embarrassing bathing suit? I haven't owned a bathing suit in 15 years.

Land's End, fo' sho'.


Kate P. - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:31 pm PDT #28853 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I wonder if there's a good resource for teen kinky people?

A good resource for teens in general is Go Ask Alice, a Q&A site run by Columbia University's Health Services. The section on sexuality has a few categories that might be helpful, including one on fetishes and one on "sexual permutations" that includes several questions on S/M topics. The answers are nonjudgmental and very straightforward.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:37 pm PDT #28854 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I just remembered that a friend of mine has a blog about feminist issues AND a sex advice blog, so I just poked her.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:59 pm PDT #28855 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Whoo, thank you, Kate!


Kate P. - Sep 01, 2011 12:45:10 pm PDT #28856 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

You're welcome! It's really a great resource.