I-I'm just taking things without paying for th... In what twisted dictionary is that stealing?

Willow ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 01, 2011 12:42:06 pm PDT #28852 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Can anyone recommend a good place for a plus-size woman to buy a non-embarrassing bathing suit? I haven't owned a bathing suit in 15 years.

Land's End, fo' sho'.


Kate P. - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:31 pm PDT #28853 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

I wonder if there's a good resource for teen kinky people?

A good resource for teens in general is Go Ask Alice, a Q&A site run by Columbia University's Health Services. The section on sexuality has a few categories that might be helpful, including one on fetishes and one on "sexual permutations" that includes several questions on S/M topics. The answers are nonjudgmental and very straightforward.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:37 pm PDT #28854 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I just remembered that a friend of mine has a blog about feminist issues AND a sex advice blog, so I just poked her.


Atropa - Sep 01, 2011 12:43:59 pm PDT #28855 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Whoo, thank you, Kate!


Kate P. - Sep 01, 2011 12:45:10 pm PDT #28856 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

You're welcome! It's really a great resource.


hippocampus - Sep 01, 2011 1:11:10 pm PDT #28857 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

perfect. so much better, Kate.


Steph L. - Sep 01, 2011 1:52:14 pm PDT #28858 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Jilli, I highly recommend Scarleteen. HIGHLY. t edit For ALL sex-related topics for teens, not just for BDSM topics. It's really excellent. For instance, Is somehing wrong with me because I like BDSM?

Speaking of plus size. Anyone have recommendations for reasonably priced wide calf boots. Wide calf, but not wide width.

Jessica London (which I think is part of OneStopPlus). Silhouettes has lovely wide-calf boots, but can be pricey, so watch for sales.


Ginger - Sep 01, 2011 1:59:37 pm PDT #28859 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Vinegar also causes slugs to dissolve.

I carry sort of a purse/wallet, which I have emptied. I checked all my jeans. I haven't worn a coat since March. I have cleared off most of the kitchen table, which is a feat in itself. I've looked in the car.

Putting my hands on the kind of ID they want to replace it will be challenging.


smonster - Sep 01, 2011 2:34:45 pm PDT #28860 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Fire ants crawled up my pants and bit me this morning, so I took one Benedryl, and still had to come home and sleep. And I have to fill out an incident report. Oy.

My landlord and his plumber could not find anything wrong. ::sigh::

But hey, I deposited my paycheck and they cleared it right away, so I can pay my rent! Yay.


askye - Sep 01, 2011 2:58:56 pm PDT #28861 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

So it looks like on Saturday I may be meeting Will's boys for the first time. I'm nervous. But they are geeks so there is common ground. Hopefully it will happen I've wanted to meet them and hopefully they will like me.