Actually not needing validation right now, but thank you.

Buffy ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Aug 10, 2011 8:18:57 am PDT #27398 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

For those who enjoy a little whimsy with their photos of violence and destruction. photoshoplooter


WindSparrow - Aug 10, 2011 8:23:21 am PDT #27399 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I suppose the people in favor of drug testing all welfare recipients also have the unstated motto of "billions of dollars on drug testing, not one cent from billionaires".


Laga - Aug 10, 2011 8:24:39 am PDT #27400 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I was not aware until today that some homeless shelters require drug testing.

And in many communities it is illegal for a private citizen to give food to the homeless.


Nora Deirdre - Aug 10, 2011 8:30:22 am PDT #27401 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Is anyone else with AT&T Wireless having massive problems? Calls keep going straight to voicemail even though I have full bars, texts won't send...

YES!

I'm waiting on a fridge being delivered, and I can't even GET INTO MY VOICEMAIL for the call that went straight there!

Uggghhhhhhhhhhhh................


Laga - Aug 10, 2011 8:35:07 am PDT #27402 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

it's normal for healthy adults to have occasional metldowns including loud cussing and slamming of doors, right? How often is too often?


erikaj - Aug 10, 2011 8:36:20 am PDT #27403 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

Maybe, Windsparrow, but in this case, I think he doesn't see the connection. More like the people who say "Increased national surveillance shouldn't bother you if you have nothing to hide." Also, by the time they spend the money on testing, clearing up the screw-ups, and court challenges from spoilsports like me, it would probably be cheaper to pay everyone twice(Not that I have exact figures on that.) It *would* be better stimulus, though.


WindSparrow - Aug 10, 2011 8:43:19 am PDT #27404 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

it's normal for healthy adults to have occasional metldowns including loud cussing and slamming of doors, right? How often is too often?

I try to keep mine down to two a month or fewer. I'm not always successful. I'm more successful at keeping them for times when I am alone.


WindSparrow - Aug 10, 2011 8:45:41 am PDT #27405 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Maybe, Windsparrow, but in this case, I think he doesn't see the connection.

Yeah. Not smart with the thinking is. "Where's the money going to come from to pay for all those tests?" From the existing social services budgets, of course.


meara - Aug 10, 2011 8:46:50 am PDT #27406 of 30000

Well, loud cussing I do all the time! Or at least under my breath. And I try to avoid the meltdowns, as they are usually caused by being HANGRY. Maybe once a month? But I tend not to slam doors. I think some of it depends, too--are you scaring other people by slamming doors? Are you acting like you might take it out on them? Are you cussing at someone to their face?


Laga - Aug 10, 2011 8:53:24 am PDT #27407 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

It's less than once a month.

I think some of it depends, too--are you scaring other people by slamming doors?

Maybe

Are you acting like you might take it out on them?

no

Are you cussing at someone to their face?

no

I think I am hypersensitive because a former member of this household used to do things like put a fist through a wall.

I'm pretty sure this is normal and I am continuing to do the right thing by ignoring it when it happens.