Yeah, I can't seem to roll any other way, no matter how many times it doesn't work for me.
No, I know. I recognize it because I'm the same way.
Well, look who just popped open a fresh can of venom.
Xander ,'Empty Places'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Liese S. - Jul 14, 2011 7:51:49 pm PDT #25445 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
smonster - Jul 14, 2011 8:03:04 pm PDT #25446 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
One of the many facets of Liese & the SO's torrid romance:
Ahahaha I love that story. Especially the Dream Weaver bit.
Liese, are you an ENFP? Just curious. St.W and I were talking MBTI/Keirsey types tonight, and realized that we are BOTH a) susceptible to bad influences and b) likely to BE the bad influences. Wuh oh. We're not the same type, though I now can't quite remember what he is, he was in between two types.
DavidS - Jul 14, 2011 8:07:45 pm PDT #25447 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
It's just that I have zero interest in being someone's rebound/good time/not that serious thing.
Scrappy's DH was a rebound that turned out to be something more.
So was my relationship with JZ. I think Laura and Brendon too. So you just don't know where it's going to go.
But I know this much - you two seem to enjoy each other's company. And it's sane and it seems real. So...I think you should just let it grow a bit and see what happens.
smonster - Jul 14, 2011 8:11:06 pm PDT #25448 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I like your anecdata!
So...I think you should just let it grow a bit and see what happens.
I will. It just wasn't quite what I wanted to hear, and it really took me by surprise that I got so upset. It's probably for the best that one of us at least is proceeding with caution.
Liese S. - Jul 14, 2011 8:40:31 pm PDT #25449 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Liese, are you an ENFP?
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Especially the Dream Weaver bit.
Hee. I use us as anecdata for love at first sight. I leave out the bit where we tried to elope and failed, and all the Sid & Nancy broken lamps and holes through walls bits when I try to do this, though. We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
smonster - Jul 14, 2011 8:52:40 pm PDT #25450 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Well, I'm an ENFP. No wonder we have so much in common. I think he's INTP/ISTP, but I can't remember. I'll ask him tomorrow.
We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
Also valuable info. Glad you did.
Scrappy - Jul 14, 2011 9:04:28 pm PDT #25451 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
Yeah--it takes time. It hasn't even been a week yet, right? And you have the important thing down--the part where you both like each other. Enjoy that right now. I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
Steph L. - Jul 14, 2011 9:16:48 pm PDT #25452 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
This. Exactly this. Except for "living in sin" instead of married.
Burrell - Jul 14, 2011 9:22:57 pm PDT #25453 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
I love the falling-in-love stories!
Vortex - Jul 14, 2011 9:42:26 pm PDT #25454 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
So, I seem to have screwed up my meds. I'm supposed to take the cipro twice a day (10AM & 10PM), and the metrowhatzit 3 times a day (10AM, 6PM, 2AM) Just realized that I took the cipro at 10PM and 2AM. So, I took the metrowhazits, but guess I just won't take the cipro at 10 tomorrow? Thoughts, Teppy?