Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Liese, are you an ENFP?
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Especially the Dream Weaver bit.
Hee. I use us as anecdata for love at first sight. I leave out the bit where we tried to elope and failed, and all the Sid & Nancy broken lamps and holes through walls bits when I try to do this, though. We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Well, I'm an ENFP. No wonder we have so much in common. I think he's INTP/ISTP, but I can't remember. I'll ask him tomorrow.
We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
Also valuable info. Glad you did.
Yeah--it takes time. It hasn't even been a week yet, right? And you have the important thing down--the part where you both like each other. Enjoy that right now. I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
This. Exactly this. Except for "living in sin" instead of married.
I love the falling-in-love stories!
So, I seem to have screwed up my meds. I'm supposed to take the cipro twice a day (10AM & 10PM), and the metrowhatzit 3 times a day (10AM, 6PM, 2AM) Just realized that I took the cipro at 10PM and 2AM. So, I took the metrowhazits, but guess I just won't take the cipro at 10 tomorrow? Thoughts, Teppy?
I think he's INTP/ISTP
Well, INTPs are pretty awesome. *buffs nails on shirt* ISTPs probably are, too.
I hope everything ends up the way you want it to, eventually.
So, I took the metrowhazits, but guess I just won't take the cipro at 10 tomorrow? Thoughts, Teppy?
Nah, just take the cipro at 10. Or hold off till 11 if that gives you peace of mind (but then take the next one at 10 pm). A 4-hour window isn't a huge deal.
Also, do keep an eye out for tendon or joint pain with cipro. If you notice any, call your doctor ASAP. It is not something to fuck around with.
Yeah--it takes time. It hasn't even been a week yet, right? And you have the important thing down--the part where you both like each other. Enjoy that right now.
Scrappy is always wise.
Focus on what is true vs. what is told.
Focusing on what might go wrong later will just bring that wrong into an otherwise fine present moment.
Love all that you can and know what you will be okay, whatever happens.
It's just that I have zero interest in being someone's rebound/good time/not that serious thing.
Scrappy's DH was a rebound that turned out to be something more.
So was my relationship with JZ. I think Laura and Brendon too. So you just don't know where it's going to go.
Joe and I were rebounds, too. Just for more anecdata.