Buffy ,'Help'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
One of the many facets of Liese & the SO's torrid romance:
Ahahaha I love that story. Especially the Dream Weaver bit.
Liese, are you an ENFP? Just curious. St.W and I were talking MBTI/Keirsey types tonight, and realized that we are BOTH a) susceptible to bad influences and b) likely to BE the bad influences. Wuh oh. We're not the same type, though I now can't quite remember what he is, he was in between two types.
It's just that I have zero interest in being someone's rebound/good time/not that serious thing.
Scrappy's DH was a rebound that turned out to be something more.
So was my relationship with JZ. I think Laura and Brendon too. So you just don't know where it's going to go.
But I know this much - you two seem to enjoy each other's company. And it's sane and it seems real. So...I think you should just let it grow a bit and see what happens.
I like your anecdata!
So...I think you should just let it grow a bit and see what happens.
I will. It just wasn't quite what I wanted to hear, and it really took me by surprise that I got so upset. It's probably for the best that one of us at least is proceeding with caution.
Liese, are you an ENFP?
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Especially the Dream Weaver bit.
Hee. I use us as anecdata for love at first sight. I leave out the bit where we tried to elope and failed, and all the Sid & Nancy broken lamps and holes through walls bits when I try to do this, though. We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
INFP. Funny that you nailed it so close!
Well, I'm an ENFP. No wonder we have so much in common. I think he's INTP/ISTP, but I can't remember. I'll ask him tomorrow.
We did grow through it and mature and learn to work at our relationship eventually, but it did cost a certain amount in apartment security deposits until then.
Also valuable info. Glad you did.
Yeah--it takes time. It hasn't even been a week yet, right? And you have the important thing down--the part where you both like each other. Enjoy that right now. I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
I was a rebound GF for the DH and it took him time to trust "us." It was hard with him, I won't lie--he told me that he really liked me, but that he didn't think he could ever love anyone. And this was after a year of dating! My therapist kept telling me to go by what he did and how he made me feel instead of what he said...and--well, here we are all happy and married and shit.
This. Exactly this. Except for "living in sin" instead of married.
I love the falling-in-love stories!
So, I seem to have screwed up my meds. I'm supposed to take the cipro twice a day (10AM & 10PM), and the metrowhatzit 3 times a day (10AM, 6PM, 2AM) Just realized that I took the cipro at 10PM and 2AM. So, I took the metrowhazits, but guess I just won't take the cipro at 10 tomorrow? Thoughts, Teppy?
I think he's INTP/ISTP
Well, INTPs are pretty awesome. *buffs nails on shirt* ISTPs probably are, too.
I hope everything ends up the way you want it to, eventually.