I've been out of the abbey two days, I've beaten a lawman senseless, I've fallen in with criminals. I watched the captain shoot the man I swore to protect. And I'm not even sure if I think he was wrong.

Book ,'Serenity'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Jul 10, 2011 7:49:22 am PDT #25103 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ack! I knew I forgot something! Pix, lots of ~ma to you and your family. Please keep us posted, love.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 10, 2011 7:54:37 am PDT #25104 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Running of the Bulls

I don't know why I didn't hear about this last year, but I didn't even know about until people started talking about on FB a couple weeks ago. Crazy. Next year I definitely want to go.

Did you guys go to Mimi's?

It took me a looooong time (like, a year or so) to get fully comfy sleeping in the same bed with Tom, so don't be so hard on yourself about it.

Ugh, need to get ready to get to the Howlin' Wolf for the fundraiser I'm helping with- gotta be there at 1pm, and the thing doesn't even start till 5pm! And I'll be there till 9pm.


beekaytee - Jul 10, 2011 8:05:47 am PDT #25105 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Aw smonster. I've never actually been able to sleep in the same bed with another person. I've become much, MUCH more comfortable with it over time. Interestingly, I've found that many of my bedmates have been a little relieved. Everybody gets to be comfortable. (Heh. Not like I actually _have_ a bedmate, nor have had that many!)

all I can do is stay present and honest
Sweetie, if you can do this, the 'hard' stuff will be far less than you might expect.


Laga - Jul 10, 2011 8:12:25 am PDT #25106 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I like falling asleep with someone else but I wish I could be magically transporated to my own bed to wake up in the morning.


Zenkitty - Jul 10, 2011 8:19:40 am PDT #25107 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

~ma for Pix's grandmother!

St.W told me that Benedryl puts you to sleep, but lowers your sleep quality - you don't reach "phase 4" sleep.

This sounds right to me. I sleep but wake not feeling rested, not wanting to get out of bed, just wanting to go back to sleep.

Y'all, for real - it's been thirteen years since I dated someone who I was this into

I am all giggly on your behalf! So adorable!


smonster - Jul 10, 2011 8:41:50 am PDT #25108 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

No, we ate at 13 (tater tachos!) and then hung out at R Bar. I liked it! It was my first time there, and calmer than it's seemed when I passed by on the way to Frenchmen.

Girl, good luck with the fundraiser. That's a long day. I'm about to go mattress shopping, whee.

Sweetie, if you can do this, the 'hard' stuff will be far less than you might expect.

Thankfully, he is appreciative of my honesty and directness, and responds in kind.


quester - Jul 10, 2011 8:43:18 am PDT #25109 of 30000
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Yay for St. Woot, smoster!

Ma~ for you, your mom and grandmother, Pix!


smonster - Jul 10, 2011 9:54:35 am PDT #25110 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I've been mattress shopping for five minutes and hate it already. I'm going to end up getting oversold, I can tell. Feh.


smonster - Jul 10, 2011 10:37:48 am PDT #25111 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

OH MY GOD I WOULD SELL A KIDNEY FOR A TEMPURPEDIC.

See?


Zenkitty - Jul 10, 2011 10:58:49 am PDT #25112 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I met a guy once who was a professional mattress tester. He slept on them all and reviewed them for their manufacturers. I asked him what he slept on, expecting to hear Sealy or Temperpedic or some such. He told me that at home, he slept on an air mattress on the floor. So, you know, I figure it isn't worth it to buy an expensive mattress.