Tracy ,'The Message'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Aw smonster. I've never actually been able to sleep in the same bed with another person. I've become much, MUCH more comfortable with it over time. Interestingly, I've found that many of my bedmates have been a little relieved. Everybody gets to be comfortable. (Heh. Not like I actually _have_ a bedmate, nor have had that many!)
all I can do is stay present and honestSweetie, if you can do this, the 'hard' stuff will be far less than you might expect.
I like falling asleep with someone else but I wish I could be magically transporated to my own bed to wake up in the morning.
~ma for Pix's grandmother!
St.W told me that Benedryl puts you to sleep, but lowers your sleep quality - you don't reach "phase 4" sleep.
This sounds right to me. I sleep but wake not feeling rested, not wanting to get out of bed, just wanting to go back to sleep.
Y'all, for real - it's been thirteen years since I dated someone who I was this into
I am all giggly on your behalf! So adorable!
No, we ate at 13 (tater tachos!) and then hung out at R Bar. I liked it! It was my first time there, and calmer than it's seemed when I passed by on the way to Frenchmen.
Girl, good luck with the fundraiser. That's a long day. I'm about to go mattress shopping, whee.
Sweetie, if you can do this, the 'hard' stuff will be far less than you might expect.
Thankfully, he is appreciative of my honesty and directness, and responds in kind.
Yay for St. Woot, smoster!
Ma~ for you, your mom and grandmother, Pix!
I've been mattress shopping for five minutes and hate it already. I'm going to end up getting oversold, I can tell. Feh.
OH MY GOD I WOULD SELL A KIDNEY FOR A TEMPURPEDIC.
See?
I met a guy once who was a professional mattress tester. He slept on them all and reviewed them for their manufacturers. I asked him what he slept on, expecting to hear Sealy or Temperpedic or some such. He told me that at home, he slept on an air mattress on the floor. So, you know, I figure it isn't worth it to buy an expensive mattress.
I'm thinking about buying a cheap, firm mattress and a memory foam topper. And my air mattress was great, until my cats put holes in it.
I'm thinking about buying a cheap, firm mattress and a memory foam topper.
Sounds like a perfect plan. I love my memory foam topper.