Or, in some cases (i.e., mine), "my parents should behave like rational human beings".
'Safe'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
A George Washington quote I read just today:
We must bear up against them, and make the best of mankind as they are, since cannot have them as we wish.
I WANT MORE FROM THEM.
And they want different from you. They want you to get married to a very specific kind of girl, preferably one they choose. You want them to accept you without it being an issue.
So, yes, you want more and they want different, but I think it's time for you both to realize you aren't getting and try to work with what IS and not what you WANT. You might find a lot more comfort and family peace.
I have now sent a somewhat testy yet professional email to the HaRpy at MFC, since she has not responded to either of my voicemails.
Now, budgety stuff. Blecch. Luckily, I am watching White Collar at Nora and Tom's (thank you, Nora and Tom!) to make it less onerous.
Meanwhile, I want my new phone to update and activate. I am trying to learn some expectation management myself. And patience.
Luckily, I am watching White Collar at Nora and Tom's (thank you, Nora and Tom!) to make it less onerous.
Awesome, don't delete, I haven't watched it yet. We have the new Leverage too, (which we also haven't watched yet) if you want to cue that up too.
Ooh, this time tomorrow I hope to be filled up with Leverage spoilers. I am excited.
Ooh, this time tomorrow I hope to be filled up with Leverage spoilers. I am excited.
Did you get the day off?
ETA: I just saw in Natter that you did. Yay!
I need some hivemind advice about what to do about the very bad day I had at PT today. It was my time for my every three week evaluation. On my last three week evaluation the lead PT I see dropped me down from 3 times a week to 2 times a week, which I wasn't happy about but I tried to accept that I had to do more at home exercising. This was after 3 months of going 3 times a week. Now, only 3 weeks later, she is not going to let me book any more appointments. I have 2 weeks of appointments left, and I got the strong impression that that is pretty much going to be it, which really feels like it came out of nowhere.
She feels I should be doing everything on my own now, and my trying to explain that I just can't do everything on my own seemed to get me nowhere. While better, I am also nowhere near the goal my doctor had for me in going to PT in the first place, which was to at least getting me to the point where I can work part time and manage my household stuff better.
I meet with my other PT on Tuesday (who I like and trust much more), and I want to talk to him about it. But I'm really not sure what to say. I want to be able to handle this in a professional matter that will hopefully get some results rather than with the anger and sadness I'm feeling right now.
I ended up crying with the very nice valet girl for a half an hour before I could even drive home. In my defense, I do see her 3 times a week and we know each other by name and talk whenever we see each other.
I'm sorry if the above post is incoherent. I can't even get my thoughts together right now.