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Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Burrell - May 27, 2011 7:31:58 pm PDT #22138 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Mirena, or the copper one? I've heard a fair handful of stories from women whose moods got screwy with the Mirena, which I guess is from the hormones.

Yep, Mirena. Also, while I'm guessing the mood stuff was related to the IUD, truth is I was also dealing with a baby and a toddler and massive sleep deprivation, so there were other mood-depressors to consider.

If it is the hormones, maybe the copper IUD wouldn't do that. (On the flip side, the copper IUD makes periods heavier in a lot of women, versus the Mirena's awesome magical power to make the period go away.)

And I DO appreciate said magical power. It's the main reason I'm considering replacing it with the same.


Steph L. - May 27, 2011 7:32:09 pm PDT #22139 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Oh HELLS yeah. Not having a period is almost better than not having that nagging question in the back of my head going, "Was that condom REALLY okay?" t edit (Wow, I'm tired. What I mean is, there are 2 main benefits to me to the IUD: one is no period, and the other is damn near bulletproof birth control. And I almost think my favorite of the 2 is the no-period thing.)

Yeah. I R paranoid. Go on. Act surprised.


Burrell - May 27, 2011 7:33:46 pm PDT #22140 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I share that paranoia, Steph.


Steph L. - May 27, 2011 7:34:55 pm PDT #22141 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

We totally also still use condoms. We are a tense, suspicious couple when it comes to creating life and the prevention thereof.


beth b - May 27, 2011 7:39:52 pm PDT #22142 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Now go look at Connie Neil's link in Natter


Zenkitty - May 27, 2011 7:46:17 pm PDT #22143 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

If I ever start needing birth control again, I might have to consider the Mirena, despite my whimpering fear of the pain of the insertion. I hated the Pill, it made me crazy, and I'm allergic to latex, and I don't trust any other condoms.


Steph L. - May 27, 2011 7:51:53 pm PDT #22144 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

despite my whimpering fear of the pain of the insertion.

Anecdata tells me that it's not that bad for most women. (Well, anecdata and the interwebs.) However, it was a sharp pain for me, worse than I expected, but over quickly. (That said, I gasped so loudly that I shocked my OB/GYN. Perhaps her practice is only for people who feel no pain.)

I'm curious if it will hurt the same amount this time. Obviously hoping it won't.


Burrell - May 27, 2011 7:55:56 pm PDT #22145 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I think it helps if you have an idea of what you are in for. I had a few (TMI warning) IUIs when we were first trying to get pregnant, so I knew it was going to pinch.


Burrell - May 27, 2011 7:56:31 pm PDT #22146 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

dang, I am muffing all my quick edits tonight.


Zenkitty - May 27, 2011 8:05:46 pm PDT #22147 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I get woozy just from a pap smear. I have very low pain tolerance. Luckily, there's Valium.