because there's a cultural assumption that no one *enjoys* performing cunnilingus just for the fun of it and it's some kind of chore to get a partner to go down on you?

...really? I both missed than memo and have been extraordinarily lucky in my choice of partners, then.

t edit Er. Sorry if that was TMI.

but NOT sorry it was TIM!

Well played!

because there's a cultural assumption that no one *enjoys* performing cunnilingus just for the fun of it and it's some kind of chore to get a partner to go down on you?

...really? I both missed than memo and have been extraordinarily lucky in my choice of partners, then.

In this, I like to quote Shirley Manson of Garbage -- "Get down, get busy, or get the fuck out."

I'm partial to "If you don't like pussy, you don't like girls."

News to me too. I wonder if that is leftover from the 50's cause3 I don't know many straight/bi guys my age or younger (or lesbian/bi women) who don't have various degrees of enthusiasm for it. I could say more, but maybe even in Bitches there is such a thing as TMI.

Well, I think the cultural assumption at this point is very much that people are expected to do it! Just not that they'll enjoy it.

I think fellatio is commonly regarded as a chore, at least among women.

It has been my experience that fellatio is a chore when the guy forgets that it's an actual mouth and throat. If you work together, it can be good for everyone.

I'm bisexual and think oral sex is fun all around!

Just trying to tie those conversation threads together. You're welcome.

Also, took Nyquil and fell asleep at 6. Now awake at 9:30. Problem.