Can't even shout, Can't even cry. The Gentlemen are coming by. Looking in windows, knocking on doors. They need to take seven, and they might take yours. Can't call to mom, can't say a word. You're gonna die screaming but you won't be heard.

Dream Girl ,'Bring On The Night'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Zenkitty - Mar 19, 2011 6:35:13 pm PDT #17982 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

repurposed drawers for mini raised beds

Yes, brilliant!

I know so many people for whom the words, "I have to get off the phone now" mean nothing. "Now" must translate to "as soon as you're done talking."


sj - Mar 19, 2011 7:02:36 pm PDT #17983 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ouch, I'm in a ton of pain tonight. All my joints are achier than normal. I don't know it if is from PT or the weather or what, but I don't like it.


Strix - Mar 19, 2011 7:05:11 pm PDT #17984 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

My mom's a talker, too, so I'll use the "Oops, oven beeped/water's boiling/cat puked!" or "I'm gonna pee on the floor - gotta go!"

I have had the stomach flu. And I spent the time not, er, attending to my urgent needs the last 3 days in revamping my resume.

My dream job has turned out to be like handsome womanizer -- pretty, spends lots of money on you, but treats you like shit and is always on the lookout for the next woman. I like the kids, the building is great, but I have never seen such a fear-filled, toxic workplace. Organization is a joke, support is nil...I'm so sad about it.

I might stay for another year if they offer to have me back, but since they have something like an 80% turnover rate in the upper school every year for the last 4 years (I'm not exaggerating -- they offer the weakest-ass PD I've EVER seen, and fire people in the first year if they don't meet target EOC) I am just not sure the 80+ workweeks are worth the stress for less than 40K. Hell, I don't know if it's be worth it for 80K.

Maybe it would be a little less stressful if I didn't come in mid-year, but even with the prep issues a summer of prep would take care of...I don't know. It's a nasty environment. Pretty on the outside, kind of rotten at the core. I'm sending out resumes.


amych - Mar 19, 2011 7:11:08 pm PDT #17985 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I'm sorry, Erin - it sounded like such a dream when you first landed the gig.


WindSparrow - Mar 19, 2011 7:12:32 pm PDT #17986 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Oh, Erin. I'm sorry your job has turned out to be so stressful.


sj - Mar 19, 2011 7:22:12 pm PDT #17987 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Erin, I'm so sorry to hear that about your job. Good luck looking for something else.


Strix - Mar 19, 2011 7:24:57 pm PDT #17988 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I know, and I've been really trying to keep an open mind, since I was warned about negativity in the interview.

But the negativity, although of course you always have complainers, and there's always something about any workplace, is...pretty darned justified. If there would be an administration change, I might feel better about it, but the lack of organization paired with the worst combo of laissez faire AND Big Brother...it's just disheartening.

It's all "We are going to hold you to the highest possible standards, demand results, offer no support, and listen in on intercoms for signs of discontented rumblings among the staff and fire people for asking for change." It's sad. I'm walking on eggshells, everyone is, and it's crazy. I keep my head down, and my ears and eyes open, and work my ass off.

And my objective viewpoint is that they need to get a new principal who has some leadership abilities, but the superintendent like yes-men, and everything, but everything revolves around The Test.

UGH. Vent. Finally. I've been trying to be all positive and "Work hard, keep your nose clean, it can't be as bad as it seems" but more and more, something is rotten in Denmark.


sj - Mar 19, 2011 7:30:36 pm PDT #17989 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

It's all "We are going to hold you to the highest possible standards, demand results, offer no support, and listen in on intercoms for signs of discontented rumblings among the staff and fire people for asking for change." It's sad. I'm walking on eggshells, everyone is, and it's crazy. I keep my head down, and my ears and eyes open, and work my ass off.

Wow, that sounds really awful.


DavidS - Mar 19, 2011 7:37:47 pm PDT #17990 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I miss your job with the latina girls, Erin.


Strix - Mar 19, 2011 7:38:59 pm PDT #17991 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

There are some really nice people who work there, and the sad thing is, I think the administration really, truly wants the best for kids. The lower schools do ok, but the upper school is a frickin' mess.

They just are horrible leaders. Lots of theory, little practicality. And, as a Virgo, the organization! God, the lack of organization. People, it's called a calendar. Use it.