My condolences to you. That's a really tough situation.
(((Daisy Jane)))
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Spidra Webster - Dec 20, 2010 8:35:39 am PST #11345 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.
-t - Dec 20, 2010 8:36:19 am PST #11346 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
I'm sorry, Daisy. Grieving for the person you would like to turn to for comfort is especially awful.
Kate P. - Dec 20, 2010 8:39:04 am PST #11347 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
Oh, DJ, I'm so sorry. That's just awful all around. Is there any chance you can meet Jon for a midafternoon coffee, or leave early, or something like that? My apologies if those suggestions aren't helpful. I wish all of us could be there in person to deliver the hugs we're sending your way.
Daisy Jane - Dec 20, 2010 8:41:18 am PST #11348 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
Thanks. Y'all are so supportive, and it's keeping me sane having somewhere to vomit all this crap up.
Jon works today, or I'm sure he would. With the work assplosion, I'm thinking leaving early is unlikely. Not unhelpful suggestions, though.
javachik - Dec 20, 2010 8:41:56 am PST #11349 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
DJ, my heart goes out to you. I know first hand what you're feeling and it's really rough. I'm so sorry.
WindSparrow - Dec 20, 2010 8:44:33 am PST #11350 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
This is yet another reason why I wish we all lived on Buffista Island. If we were all nearby, someone could bring you... I dunno cupcakes - ones that are decorated so adorably that it doesn't matter if you eat it, they are just fun to look at. But then if you do eat it, it's extremely yummy. Or, if you'd rather, a bottle of booze. Or something.
Liese S. - Dec 20, 2010 8:57:13 am PST #11351 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Condolences, Daisy. And yeah, you totally have the right to lose your shit at this point. It is hard when you don't have someone to grieve with, and when the person you're grieving was your connection.
Glamcookie - Dec 20, 2010 8:58:14 am PST #11352 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
I'm so sorry, DJ. Thinking of you.
amych - Dec 20, 2010 9:01:49 am PST #11353 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Oh, DJ, honey - that's all so, so hard. In particular, this:
in addition to losing that person, I don't have him here for his passing.
has me all teared up at my desk, because it's just such a deep kind of loneliness. Lose your shit as needed.
Laga - Dec 20, 2010 9:17:08 am PST #11354 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
{{{Daisy Jane}}} I can tell from your post what a great guy Bobby was. I'm very sorry you are feeling so alone. I'm glad we can lend some virtual comfort so at least in here you've got somebody.