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Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Lee - Jan 10, 2010 10:38:53 am PST #494 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I think you should do what you feel like, msbelle. God knows you've earned it.


-t - Jan 10, 2010 10:43:00 am PST #495 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

but knowing what will help and actually doing it, so very far apart.

Man, so true. Maybe 5 minutes of yoga and/or meditation, or one minute, even, and then the rest of the day to veg? This is a deal I frequently try to make with myself, sometimes with success.

All day vegging with football and chips has benefits, I'm sure of it.


Anne W. - Jan 10, 2010 10:44:44 am PST #496 of 30001
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Sue, my sympathies. I know what it's like to worry about a critter who can't tell you what's wrong.

Msbelle, I think that watching football while eating chips seems meditative. Seriously, I think a brain-break and some self-pampering may be a good thing.


msbelle - Jan 10, 2010 10:48:51 am PST #497 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

I am at least, not allowing myself to drink. I think water is best and am sticking to it.


Beverly - Jan 10, 2010 10:59:53 am PST #498 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Agreeing on the self-pampering, msbelle. Sometimes doing "nothing" is the best restorative.

Sue, our old Merlin cat yanked his tail out from under a moving car's tire. It was completely limp and lifeless. We called our vet, who said he could really do nothing. That we could try taping it at the base to support it, which we did. The tape stayed on for a few days, but when it got dirty we took it off and didn't replace it. It was funny watching him walk down the stairs, his tail draping along behind him like a bride's train. It took several months, but eventually we were calling him "Ol' Buttonhook" again.

I think it's worth calling the vet at least. The concern is swelling of the spinal cord and it pressing against the vertebrae, possibly damaging it. He might give a steroid shot to prevent swelling. Our Buttercup cat got caught above her hips in a descending garage door and immediately lost control of her hind end. We rushed her to the vet. He shot her up with steroids and we confined her for a day or two till she was walking, then kept her indoors for a week till she could jump up on furniture as normal and was ready to rip the door off the hinges herself to get outside. She never had another problem with the injury.

Short version? Call the vet. It may be something that will heal on its own, or it may need treatment to prevent pain and future trouble. And good luck!


sarameg - Jan 10, 2010 11:01:00 am PST #499 of 30001

Probably best emotionally.

I've given up on getting anything more householdy done. I have light in my closet. That'll have to suffice.


msbelle - Jan 10, 2010 11:02:50 am PST #500 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

yay Ravens. suck it Brady.


Cashmere - Jan 10, 2010 11:07:04 am PST #501 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I like the way msbelle thinks.

Crap. The director of the program I volunteer for just submitted her resignation. We're under the gun and probably going to lose our funding from the United Way, anyway but damn. It's a really shitty time to get this news.


Hil R. - Jan 10, 2010 11:13:51 am PST #502 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

[link] The guy who went past security last weekend at Newark Airport, causing the terminal to close for about six hours, had just stepped in for a second to kiss his girlfriend goodbye, and then went home. They're saying that he could face up to 30 days in jail, and Lautenberg says that's not enough for someone who caused that much trouble. Really, I'd say the security people caused much more trouble than he did.


shrift - Jan 10, 2010 11:18:17 am PST #503 of 30001
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

I spent most of yesterday in a cleaning frenzy, so today I don't feel like doing much other than reading a book. At some point in the near future, I should put on outside pants and go to Walgreens for a bizarre assortment of items.