Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - Apr 28, 2010 10:57:13 am PDT #25920 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I have to agree with Kate.


Kate P. - Apr 28, 2010 10:57:29 am PDT #25921 of 30001
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Kate, have I ever told you I adore you? I do.

Aw, shucks, Dana! You just made me grin.


erikaj - Apr 28, 2010 10:59:37 am PDT #25922 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!

OK, I could accept that I might be wrong. Absolutely normal kind people wait for a hot death-penalty case to drop by and say hello. Okay. Whatever. Y'all are too nice. But that's probably why you like me too. And I should be careful...you could divest from me right now.


Daisy Jane - Apr 28, 2010 11:01:02 am PDT #25923 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I am uncomfortable labeling anyone a troll for bringing up unpopular sides to a convo.

You know that's not what it's for right? That it's because the last time I remember her in Natter it was also during a political discussion that nearly got nasty.

Again, I'm not in all threads all the time, so I'm willing to admit I may have it wrong, but I think saying it's for having an unpopular opinion is forgetting some history.

Now, I promise I'm done.


Strix - Apr 28, 2010 11:01:53 am PDT #25924 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I like you fine, erika!

And I am a meanypants! GRR. See -- I can be mean.

I just love this board so much that I prefer to err on the side of caution and courtesy.

EDIT: And DJ, I am perfectly aware that there might be things that I am not aware of -- I am not omniscient. It was just -- erika, it felt very attacky, sorry, and that's what I am uncomfortable with.

(And having, I hope, clarified my thoughts, I going to try to step away from this conversation -- not the board-- before I eat my foot -- .

Peace.

I mean, "Namaste, motherfuckers!"


lisah - Apr 28, 2010 11:01:54 am PDT #25925 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate

I'm certainly not too nice. But I think you are reading Shari's motives wrong here.


brenda m - Apr 28, 2010 11:03:18 am PDT #25926 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I am also uncomfortable with discussing someone when they are not present in a convo to speak for themselves.

I'd also add that around here how do you know who's here and who's not? If she's not popping up when there's a good chance of political turmoil as Erika suggests and is in fact lurking more than speaking, then who knows?

That said, I made a point of addressing my point to her rather than speaking about her. YMMV if that makes a difference.


Burrell - Apr 28, 2010 11:04:03 am PDT #25927 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I am uncomfortable labeling anyone a troll for bringing up unpopular sides to a convo. I am also uncomfortable with discussing someone when they are not present in a convo to speak for themselves.

Me too. Although I feel the need to point out that just because she's not posting right now doesn't mean she's not reading this right now. I have to admit it's upsetting to me to be having this conversation here in Natter.


beth b - Apr 28, 2010 11:04:39 am PDT #25928 of 30001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I don't talk a lot about my view on immigration because I am on another end of the spectrum. I think we should make it as easy as possible to come into the country. If no one has to come into unlawfully , than things like undocumented people in the ER won't have to exist. Because they will be documented. And most likely paying into the system.

Simplistic, but this:

I think most parents would do anything for their children or their own parents and so on. I just can't find it in myself to criticize people who are willing to do what it takes to provide for their families.

Rings true. I know I'd go pretty far for my family, and I don't even have kids. And it is for most of the people I know.

and if i hear one person take a strong stand on undocumented immigration, and then hire the day labors around here... I might explode.


javachik - Apr 28, 2010 11:06:23 am PDT #25929 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

Why is it upsetting, Burrell? Real question, not snark.