Wash: You want a slinky dress? I can buy you a slinky dress. Captain, can I have money for a slinky dress? Jayne: I'll chip in. Zoe: I can hurt you.

'Shindig'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - Apr 28, 2010 8:20:37 am PDT #25837 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

From Tom's link:

Note: VB is male, but previously identified as female before coming out as transgendered (FTM). The personal pronouns in this entry have been amended accordingly.


Steph L. - Apr 28, 2010 8:22:02 am PDT #25838 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

tommyrot, what makes that noteworthy?


Kathy A - Apr 28, 2010 8:22:29 am PDT #25839 of 30001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I remember my junior high librarian having a "Frodo Lives" plaque above her office door. I had to ask her what it meant, since I didn't read LotR until high school.


tommyrot - Apr 28, 2010 8:23:36 am PDT #25840 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

tommyrot, what makes that noteworthy?

Well, you mentioned it was a woman.


Steph L. - Apr 28, 2010 8:26:34 am PDT #25841 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

tommyrot, what makes that noteworthy?

Well, you mentioned it was a woman.

She was, though, (or identified as such) when it all started, wasn't she?

Heck, I got the "psychic marriage" thing wrong, too, so I'm not the most reliable source of LotR wacko fandom info.


tommyrot - Apr 28, 2010 8:28:15 am PDT #25842 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

She was, though, when it all started, wasn't she?

Yeah.

I get confused on whether gender identity should be backdated in cases like this....


Gudanov - Apr 28, 2010 8:28:39 am PDT #25843 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

tommyrot, what makes that noteworthy?

It was helpful for me, I just popped the link open and skimmed for a few seconds. The contrast between names and pronouns was confusing.


tommyrot - Apr 28, 2010 8:33:35 am PDT #25844 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

ION, this io9 headline confused me for a second: Were-Monkeys? Were-Fish? Were-Ferrets? New Anthology Is Open To Going Any-Were.


Jessica - Apr 28, 2010 8:34:19 am PDT #25845 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I get confused on whether gender identity should be backdated in cases like this....

I always think the best way to proceed is to use the pronouns the individual person prefers, but fandom_wank isn't exactly set up for that.


Steph L. - Apr 28, 2010 8:34:25 am PDT #25846 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

get confused on whether gender identity should be backdated in cases like this....

I totally don't know. Not doing it helps delineate the time period, but doing it maintains continuity. I assume everyone's preference on that varies, but if you're talking about someone not present, you often might not know their preference.

There should be a handbook. That would make things so much easier.

t edit Or, what Jess said.