My love for me now / Ain't hard to explain / The Hero of Canton / The man they call...ME.

Jayne ,'Jaynestown'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


DavidS - Nov 16, 2009 1:44:58 pm PST #679 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Suzi & Raq! Andrew Bailey won ROY for the A's! Sweeeet.


DavidS - Nov 16, 2009 1:46:01 pm PST #680 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Why does gravity hate me?

I expect you're one of the Wright Brothers reincarnated. Probably Orville.


SuziQ - Nov 16, 2009 1:54:36 pm PST #681 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Suzi & Raq! Andrew Bailey won ROY for the A's! Sweeeet.

I did see that in the news. I just wish I had been able to see him pitch during the season.


Hil R. - Nov 16, 2009 1:54:51 pm PST #682 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Now I kind of wish I'd gone to Chipotle. Maybe sometime later this week.


-t - Nov 16, 2009 1:57:07 pm PST #683 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

He told me that I've got to take control and make my advisor do the stuff he's supposed to do

But...but...seriously?


Calli - Nov 16, 2009 2:01:05 pm PST #684 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

He told me that I've got to take control and make my advisor do the stuff he's supposed to do

Did he provide a handgun? Or at least a cattle-prod?


hippocampus - Nov 16, 2009 2:08:06 pm PST #685 of 30000
not your mom's socks.

shit i didn't say: To the person who contracted a custom online store application, talked her way out of the CYA deposit, and moved on to another product at the end of development phase without paying, when I saw her facebook status light up with "frustrated with tech support": NEENER.

eta: best application of the 'like' button ever.

Hil, can you channel Vortex for your next advisor meeting?


Scrappy - Nov 16, 2009 2:12:25 pm PST #686 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Well, I kinda understand. Hil has been treating the adviser as she would wish to be treated, like an adult--allowing him time to respond to requests, asking rather than telling, giving him the benefit of the doubt. This doesn't work on him, obviously. He's a douche.

She is going to have to start doing things like showing up at times not her meeting time to make sure he is there and pinning him down. Saying, for example, I need you to do this and this. I will be back here in two days to pick thje work up from you and if he doesn't have it done at that time say "I can wait." She has to say things like "I understand that you don't like my style of writing, but others do and I am going to stick with it for now. I only want to go over the math from now on."


beth b - Nov 16, 2009 2:14:38 pm PST #687 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

He told me that I've got to take control and make my advisor do the stuff he's supposed to do

WHAT?!?!?!?!

You might need a new therapist. If he somehow thinks you can control someone else's behavior...


beth b - Nov 16, 2009 2:17:38 pm PST #688 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I get what you are saying Scrappy -- except that she has been told by a number of the people at the university that this is how he behaves.

She can control her reaction, she can't make him do the work. Esp. since no one at the university will back her up.