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I'll be fine. I'll be your bounty, Jubal Early. And I'll just fade away.

River ,'Objects In Space'

Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.

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JZ - Dec 12, 2009 4:09:35 pm PST #3486 of 30000

See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

I'd never heard of a Suffering Bastard before, but I just googled it and it looks delicious.

So very much ~ma to your sister, Cash. I had an early MC right before Matilda, and I remember the day of spotting and uncertainty before I could go to the doctor and find out for certain one way or the other as utterly miserable.

sj - Dec 12, 2009 5:19:15 pm PST #3487 of 30000

"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'd never heard of a Suffering Bastard before, but I just googled it and it looks delicious.

It is so yummy and fruity that you can drink it right down as if there is no alcohol in it at all, when of course there is a ton.

Laura - Dec 12, 2009 5:23:34 pm PST #3488 of 30000

Our wings are not tired.

After 3 miscarriages it was emotional torture getting through the first trimester. Much ~ma for your sister, Cash.

Off to look up a Suffering Bastard...

sj - Dec 12, 2009 5:28:30 pm PST #3489 of 30000

"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I didn't realize how many buffistas had suffered miscarriages. I'm so sorry for all of you.

smonster - Dec 12, 2009 5:41:27 pm PST #3490 of 30000

We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Erin, thank you for the sheet suggestions. He is a hot sleeper, so I don't think they're for him. But I might like a set! I love my flannel sheets.

KBD and I just had some friends over, and now we're watching Fight Club. I did my holiday cards earlier (there's still time if you want one!) and I have my parents' Hanukah gifts to wrap before tomorrow night. Just one gift left to buy and I know what I'm getting.

P.M. Marc - Dec 12, 2009 5:58:01 pm PST #3491 of 30000

So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Echoing what everyone else in the been there, done that crowd has said that all you can do is be there and listen. There's no advice you can really give, you know? Nothing you can do, and no way to change things.

libkitty - Dec 12, 2009 6:01:10 pm PST #3492 of 30000

Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

Thanks all for the ~ma, especially WindSparrow, Laura, sj, and Shir. I really appreciate it. An update: the wedding went off, mostly without a hitch, and was just beautiful. I mostly was able to compartmentalize, and mostly to have a good time. Now, I've been in my hotel doing a combination of centering, working on my cousin's virtual memorial, and weeping; this, too, is good.

I cannot say how important it was for me to have someone I could tell about this, and how valuable your support is. Thank you all.

xposted with Natter

-t - Dec 12, 2009 6:07:58 pm PST #3493 of 30000

I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{libkitty}}} Glad the wedding went well, and that you have the space to mourn, now.

beth b - Dec 12, 2009 7:16:55 pm PST #3494 of 30000

oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

DH has been on a work call since 1. if you have a little extra patience it would be appreciated

erin_obscure - Dec 12, 2009 7:31:35 pm PST #3495 of 30000

Occasionally I’m callous and strange

{{libkitty}} and all my patience~ma to beth and yr DH. My cheap white wine is of wonderful right now.

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