Hee, javachik!
As I recall, that was a pretty good rock story.
Willow ,'Empty Places'
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Hee, javachik!
As I recall, that was a pretty good rock story.
The day after my father's funeral, my sisters and mother and I went to a big shopping mall that was always a planned day trip to go to. It was a surprisingly congenial trip (for us) and such a blessing to get out of the funeral focus we'd been in for the last week.
Blessings on you and yours, Teppy.
Spidra, I'm sorry you are feeling so stuck. I've also emailed you a bit of info.
Thanks very much, Windsparrow.
I'm glad you got through the funeral okay, Steph. It was very nice of you to take pictures for him.
I had the same question. I had a camera - there were loads of family about - but it felt odd to take pictures of a funeral so I didn't. I took some pictures when we had a bit of a wake back at my grandma's, though.
Is there an option to email an rsvp, Vortex? We have that option and are thinking about not attaching stamps but including them so people could use the stamp to RSVP or for something else if they are emailing their response.
Five years ago, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but now, it's a pain in the ass to buy a stamp. It's not the .42, it's the EFFORT.
I've never seen it done, and there's something about it that seems tacky, like a funeral is too sacred to whip out the camera.
Me either, until my dad's cousin took pictures at my dad's funeral. I mean, it looked really cool with the cason (carriage that carries the casket) and the horses and the beauty of Arlington; but it was still a surprise.
Five years ago, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but now, it's a pain in the ass to buy a stamp. It's not the .42, it's the EFFORT.
It's possible that they left it off accidentally when they were assembling invitations and would be mortified if they knew. I know I was convinced I'd done so on at least a few invites.
Teppy, it sounds like it went as well as it could have, but funerals are so damned hard. Non-invasive hugs to you and the Boy and his family.
I, too, love t's bees. And Buffistas in general.
ION, something is scurrying around in my walls. Mia has been prairie dogging and staring at the noises, so I know it's not just me. I'm not squicked easily, but then I remember someone telling me about giant rats running around in SoCal on roofs and such and I get FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. The noises are not small. I should add that. Nsm much scurrying as thumping about. t shudder
It's so difficult to explain the buffistas to others sometimes. I usually just say, "A friend of mine..."And how is that not accurate? A friend doesn't have to be at arms distance. And if your definition says it does, maybe consider how we communicate... via keyboard... and how far away is it? If y'all aren't friends, than I dunno what one is. And if the rest of the world can't understand it, Fuck em! I got y'all.
Oh, I'm all about "a friend of mine"--and in these days of facebook, it even makes perfect sense that a friend of mine said something on the internet! Much more so than it used to in the past. ;) Though often people are all "Oh, a friend from college?" (or DC, or whatever) and I'm like "Er...no...just...um..." (especially if I'm mentioning one of you with kids or something)
Pix I'm sorry there are things in your walls. That is super creepy.
I have also never thought of taking pictures of a funeral. AT a funeral, possibly--I mean, my father's family being midwestern Irish Catholic, there was usually some sort of post-funeral potluck shindig at the church, so there? Sure! Pictures! Look, family is together! But NSM of the actual funeral stuff.
ION, something is scurrying around in my walls. Mia has been prairie dogging and staring at the noises, so I know it's not just me.
Yup, I've got something too. It's underneath my bedroom closet. Probably raccoons. I know I should call my landlady, but I don't want to deal with an exterminator right now. I know raccoons and squirrels are pests, but I still don't want a fledgling family destroyed. (it doesn't sound like rats - too heavy.)