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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Aug 10, 2010 7:58:59 pm PDT #28130 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Spidra, I'm sorry you are feeling so stuck. I've also emailed you a bit of info.


Spidra Webster - Aug 10, 2010 8:13:11 pm PDT #28131 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Thanks very much, Windsparrow.

I'm glad you got through the funeral okay, Steph. It was very nice of you to take pictures for him.

I had the same question. I had a camera - there were loads of family about - but it felt odd to take pictures of a funeral so I didn't. I took some pictures when we had a bit of a wake back at my grandma's, though.


Vortex - Aug 10, 2010 8:45:24 pm PDT #28132 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Is there an option to email an rsvp, Vortex? We have that option and are thinking about not attaching stamps but including them so people could use the stamp to RSVP or for something else if they are emailing their response.

Five years ago, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but now, it's a pain in the ass to buy a stamp. It's not the .42, it's the EFFORT.

I've never seen it done, and there's something about it that seems tacky, like a funeral is too sacred to whip out the camera.

Me either, until my dad's cousin took pictures at my dad's funeral. I mean, it looked really cool with the cason (carriage that carries the casket) and the horses and the beauty of Arlington; but it was still a surprise.


Pix - Aug 10, 2010 9:05:14 pm PDT #28133 of 30000
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Five years ago, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but now, it's a pain in the ass to buy a stamp. It's not the .42, it's the EFFORT.

It's possible that they left it off accidentally when they were assembling invitations and would be mortified if they knew. I know I was convinced I'd done so on at least a few invites.

Teppy, it sounds like it went as well as it could have, but funerals are so damned hard. Non-invasive hugs to you and the Boy and his family.

I, too, love t's bees. And Buffistas in general.

ION, something is scurrying around in my walls. Mia has been prairie dogging and staring at the noises, so I know it's not just me. I'm not squicked easily, but then I remember someone telling me about giant rats running around in SoCal on roofs and such and I get FREAKED THE FUCK OUT. The noises are not small. I should add that. Nsm much scurrying as thumping about. t shudder


omnis_audis - Aug 10, 2010 9:06:03 pm PDT #28134 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

It's so difficult to explain the buffistas to others sometimes. I usually just say, "A friend of mine..."
And how is that not accurate? A friend doesn't have to be at arms distance. And if your definition says it does, maybe consider how we communicate... via keyboard... and how far away is it? If y'all aren't friends, than I dunno what one is. And if the rest of the world can't understand it, Fuck em! I got y'all.


meara - Aug 10, 2010 9:22:46 pm PDT #28135 of 30000

Oh, I'm all about "a friend of mine"--and in these days of facebook, it even makes perfect sense that a friend of mine said something on the internet! Much more so than it used to in the past. ;) Though often people are all "Oh, a friend from college?" (or DC, or whatever) and I'm like "Er...no...just...um..." (especially if I'm mentioning one of you with kids or something)

Pix I'm sorry there are things in your walls. That is super creepy.

I have also never thought of taking pictures of a funeral. AT a funeral, possibly--I mean, my father's family being midwestern Irish Catholic, there was usually some sort of post-funeral potluck shindig at the church, so there? Sure! Pictures! Look, family is together! But NSM of the actual funeral stuff.


javachik - Aug 10, 2010 9:24:50 pm PDT #28136 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

ION, something is scurrying around in my walls. Mia has been prairie dogging and staring at the noises, so I know it's not just me.

Yup, I've got something too. It's underneath my bedroom closet. Probably raccoons. I know I should call my landlady, but I don't want to deal with an exterminator right now. I know raccoons and squirrels are pests, but I still don't want a fledgling family destroyed. (it doesn't sound like rats - too heavy.)


omnis_audis - Aug 10, 2010 9:41:58 pm PDT #28137 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Major studios sign on to Netflix streaming


omnis_audis - Aug 10, 2010 10:56:26 pm PDT #28138 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I guess I'm the only one awake.

I got an e-mail from ThinkGeek. It was advertising this: [link]

I wonder if it would work with this: [link]


Spidra Webster - Aug 10, 2010 11:47:26 pm PDT #28139 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Nah, I'm still awake although I shouldn't be.

The ThinkGeek site claims it works with *any* telescope but I'd check with them to be sure. Man, that Galileoscope links makes me wistful. We made a version of those in my high school Astronomy class. I kept mine. Somewhere along the line, my mom threw it out. *sad face*