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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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sj - Aug 06, 2010 2:04:16 pm PDT #27795 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I usually tip 15% for bad service at a restaurant, because I feel guilty tipping less. For good service I tip at 20% or just above. If I am at a breakfast place where my bill comes to $5, I still tip about $2 because I figure they're working hard and shouldn't be penalized just because the food they are serving is cheap. I never tip at the coffee shops in bookstores because I know they are making the same as the booksellers, and it doesn't seem fair that they should get tips and the booksellers don't.


omnis_audis - Aug 06, 2010 2:10:08 pm PDT #27796 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

The original tipping page!. Links for US and international.


Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:25:14 pm PDT #27797 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I tend to tip 20% in restaurants (actually more than 20, since I tend to tip on the total, not the pretax total). If the service is not good, I will reduce the tip, but I will never tip less than 15%. If I feel that the service is that bad, I will speak to the manager (after giving the server the opportunity to correct the problem).

I don't tip on take out, but I will tip on delivery (especially since they are walking up three floors :) )

I tip a few dollars a day at a hotel if they do a good job, left at the end of the stay.

My issue with tipping is that it's become de rigeur as opposed to a reward for superior service. For example, why do we tip taxi drivers for getting us from point a to point b without dying? It's different with restaurants because the tip is built into their wages (which I think is stupid). I hate going to get my hair cut and tipping once for the shampoo guy and once for the hair cut, etc., etc.

I used to go to a salon where the receptionist would always ask if you wanted to tip the shampoo girl when you gave him a tip when paying for the cut, as in "and how much for Alejandra?" I once said "doesn't Charles tip her out?" and he sort of stammered and said yes. So, he was hustling for extra, which I didn't appreciate.

I kind of resent tipping, honestly (service wage employees aside). I won't cheat service people who work hard, but I hate feeling like I have to give people extra for just doing their jobs. Tipping is supposed to be because they've gone above and beyond. Of course, just because I feel this way doesn't make it optional.


Liese S. - Aug 06, 2010 2:32:01 pm PDT #27798 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I almost always end up tipping housekeepers at least partly in change because I always forget I`ll need dollars. And then half the time I don`t leave it in a clear enough place so they don`t take it. But then the inimitable BHP mentioned something and I learned from her to tip on the pillow, which seems to work since you wouldn`t be accidentally leaving money there and of course the housekeeper sees it.


Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:38:49 pm PDT #27799 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

That's one of the reasons that I wait until the end, so they know that it's for them since I've checked out.


Polter-Cow - Aug 06, 2010 2:45:18 pm PDT #27800 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I kind of resent tipping, honestly (service wage employees aside). I won't cheat service people who work hard, but I hate feeling like I have to give people extra for just doing their jobs. Tipping is supposed to be because they've gone above and beyond.

I feel the same way, Vortex.


Calli - Aug 06, 2010 2:52:43 pm PDT #27801 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I tip housekeepers on the day I check out. But apparently it's not universal. When I was traveling in Greece with a friend, we were on a boat between Crete and Santorini when she handed me 5 Euros and said, "Oh, yeah, you forgot this on the dresser this morning." I had to explain to her that that had been on purpose.


§ ita § - Aug 06, 2010 2:54:27 pm PDT #27802 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Stay in more all-inclusive places. Less tipping.


meara - Aug 06, 2010 3:00:25 pm PDT #27803 of 30000

I tip about 10% on takeout usually--if it's a sit-down restaurant. Not if it's a regular takeout place. With taxi guys we tip for the same reason other places--most don't owntheir taxi and so on. That said, I'm not usually tipping MUCH there.


Cass - Aug 06, 2010 3:00:31 pm PDT #27804 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Happy Scrappy Day!