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Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:25:14 pm PDT #27797 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I tend to tip 20% in restaurants (actually more than 20, since I tend to tip on the total, not the pretax total). If the service is not good, I will reduce the tip, but I will never tip less than 15%. If I feel that the service is that bad, I will speak to the manager (after giving the server the opportunity to correct the problem).

I don't tip on take out, but I will tip on delivery (especially since they are walking up three floors :) )

I tip a few dollars a day at a hotel if they do a good job, left at the end of the stay.

My issue with tipping is that it's become de rigeur as opposed to a reward for superior service. For example, why do we tip taxi drivers for getting us from point a to point b without dying? It's different with restaurants because the tip is built into their wages (which I think is stupid). I hate going to get my hair cut and tipping once for the shampoo guy and once for the hair cut, etc., etc.

I used to go to a salon where the receptionist would always ask if you wanted to tip the shampoo girl when you gave him a tip when paying for the cut, as in "and how much for Alejandra?" I once said "doesn't Charles tip her out?" and he sort of stammered and said yes. So, he was hustling for extra, which I didn't appreciate.

I kind of resent tipping, honestly (service wage employees aside). I won't cheat service people who work hard, but I hate feeling like I have to give people extra for just doing their jobs. Tipping is supposed to be because they've gone above and beyond. Of course, just because I feel this way doesn't make it optional.


Liese S. - Aug 06, 2010 2:32:01 pm PDT #27798 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

I almost always end up tipping housekeepers at least partly in change because I always forget I`ll need dollars. And then half the time I don`t leave it in a clear enough place so they don`t take it. But then the inimitable BHP mentioned something and I learned from her to tip on the pillow, which seems to work since you wouldn`t be accidentally leaving money there and of course the housekeeper sees it.


Vortex - Aug 06, 2010 2:38:49 pm PDT #27799 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

That's one of the reasons that I wait until the end, so they know that it's for them since I've checked out.


Polter-Cow - Aug 06, 2010 2:45:18 pm PDT #27800 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I kind of resent tipping, honestly (service wage employees aside). I won't cheat service people who work hard, but I hate feeling like I have to give people extra for just doing their jobs. Tipping is supposed to be because they've gone above and beyond.

I feel the same way, Vortex.


Calli - Aug 06, 2010 2:52:43 pm PDT #27801 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I tip housekeepers on the day I check out. But apparently it's not universal. When I was traveling in Greece with a friend, we were on a boat between Crete and Santorini when she handed me 5 Euros and said, "Oh, yeah, you forgot this on the dresser this morning." I had to explain to her that that had been on purpose.


§ ita § - Aug 06, 2010 2:54:27 pm PDT #27802 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Stay in more all-inclusive places. Less tipping.


meara - Aug 06, 2010 3:00:25 pm PDT #27803 of 30000

I tip about 10% on takeout usually--if it's a sit-down restaurant. Not if it's a regular takeout place. With taxi guys we tip for the same reason other places--most don't owntheir taxi and so on. That said, I'm not usually tipping MUCH there.


Cass - Aug 06, 2010 3:00:31 pm PDT #27804 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Happy Scrappy Day!


omnis_audis - Aug 06, 2010 3:01:14 pm PDT #27805 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

what if you tip the 2nd stringers? Say you are staying Friday through Monday. Say the weekend is different maid staff. Then you are leaving a tip for someone who has been off all weekend.

t confused with tipping (because that tag isn't closing anytime soon)


Zenkitty - Aug 06, 2010 3:09:02 pm PDT #27806 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

That's why I tip at hotels every day, instead of waiting until I'm checking out. It isn't always the same people cleaning the room. Also, if they like me, they're less likely to, say, wash my drinking glasses in the toilet.